Sunday, January 31, 2010

From Debbie Hammons...

This will hopefully be my only post if the evil people this is directed towards "get it".


Yes, I am putting up money for Kathie to go to an attorney.


No, we will not back down to ANYONE for ANY reason, other than COMPLETE actions taken to mine and Kathie's satisfaction for the protection of our grandchildren.


I will not stand by and stand the chance that some fool out there may do harm to my children/grandchildren. I will take any precations for protection of my grandchildren BEFORE it becomes a priority, such as Kelsey's.


I will NOT put up with blogs stating where their location is, a picture of the home they are in, or what they are wearing or anything pertaining to keeping the safety of these children OR ANYONE sitting outside their location and taking pictures or videos.


If YOU (and you know who you are) continue to do this, you will be prosecuted in due time. I do NOT care if you have money or not, you can hire an attorney and if I decide to go after something of value, it will be your FUTURE earnings!


I do not make threats, I promise the safety of my family will not be compromised because of you.


Continue to post, if you will, you will be deciding your own future.


Due to an unexpected death in the family, things will not proceed as fast as I would like, but they will proceed, I can promise you.



Debbie Hammons

Never ending....

First off, I find it humerous when people that lie, try to cover their tracks.  Other than I wasn't raised that way, that is a good reason to not lie...you don't have to remember which lies you've told and you don't have to try to cover those lies with more and more and more....It's never ending.  Just like the bs with this blogger.

I also find it comical that the trip to the attorney the Briggs made was blogged about.  Let me reassure you, that we knew you would be immediately told as soon as Gayla hung up the phone from talking to the person SHE called, that she had not called in 5 years. THAT call came about because the person Gayla called had talked to RD's sister, and the chain of calling started.  We knew the who, when, where and why would be made known to the blogger.  Who cares? lol

And I'm sorry, the blogger doesn't know the law as well as claimed.  Just because in your mind something is true, not only does NOT make it true, it also doesn't make it ok to post it all over the internet AS true.  Even if something is true, depending on certain things, can also mean it is NOT ok to post.  And for the record, no, not everything posted as the truth IS the truth, nor can it be proven to BE the truth.  Trust me, the attorney's have seen what's been written.  And yes, it's true that it can cost quite a bit and if the person being sued has no money, then it can be a waste of your money if money is what you are after.  Some people are obviously always out to make an easy buck any way they can.  While to others, it is NOT about the money.  It's the principal of the thing and what is right and wrong.  Money is not everything, that would be a lesson well learned by some.

I don't know why it would be "interesting" that the attorney attained by the Briggs is the same one Smothermon used for the deposition stuff.  Who cares?  One has nothing to do with the other.  It's the attorney and the record of said attorney that matters and is important.  And yes, there were certain questions that could not be asked of Smothermon, but you would think to those that are so adament that RD will get another trial, that the reason for refusal of certain questions pertaining to the criminal case would be understandable.  Maybe they aren't as sure of a new trial as they would like others to believe. And/or as it appears, maybe that will be their reasoning behing it all when she doesn't get the money....I sense more "conspiracy" stories being formed already.(my opinion.) Also n my opinion,  There's certainly GOT to be SOMETHING to blame it on when she has to serve at least her sentence of the 27 yrs...it can't be because she is guilty.

This quote from a recent blog, "So, the Briggs have no money and definitely not enough money to throw away on a frivolous lawsuit that cannot be won." is another example of what is going on.  First place the blogger has no real idea what the Briggs have or don't have, and apparently thought that RD wouldn't be convicted of the charge against her, nor that she would receive a 27 yr. sentence.  I assure you this attorney would not be taking the case if it couldn't be won.  That quoted statement was based on more ASSumptions.

And I do agree with the blogger, she has more than made her motives very clear on her postings. And yes, she says she wants the lies to stop.  In my opinion she wants people to stop posting their opinions of RD and this case that do not coincide with her "opinions", and when they don't match up, they are apparenlty "lies". But yet it is to be allowed for her to continue with her lies on the Briggs, me, KP and others. I have not lied about said blogger, but can greatly prove the lies TOLD by same.  And you absolutely cannot post your opinions stated and worded to where a reasonable person would believe them to be true, when they are only one's opinion and therefore not factual.

No one is creating false evidence and if she is referring to those things recently posted on my blog, they were screenshotted from some of the other bloggers websites.  Most of my proof on everything comes from either conversations that include her, emails FROM her, postings FROM her and HER own blogs.  THE WHOLE THING was screenshot, not just bits and pieces, so yes, it CAN be proven what I copied as posts from her-- ARE from her and where they came from AND who posted them and the dates as well.  If reference is being made about the hate shown towards Kathie and Lance, well that has been an ongoing thing for many years, and it can be proven that the majority of the posts were under her alias, "truthseeker", which we know for fact IS her, and to which she lied about for many years and yet called others "liars" among other things.

Not to worry, I didn't expect any "dialogue" with her, only more accusations and lies, and that is what I got.  My offer was sincere as it has been every time it's been made.  It is obvious by facts and evidence well documented who wants the "hate" and nonsense to stop and who provokes it and keeps the pot stirred.  It is well documented and easy to see who considers this "fun and games" and a "joke" and who is sincere.  You can only lead a thirsty donkey to water, you cannot make it drink, just like my grandpa used to say.

Ok, on to a new day and new things.  Lots of interesting things coming soon....Thanks for reading and have a great night!!  :)

Friday, January 29, 2010

Exploiting Kelsey?

Wow, ya know just when you think you've heard it all.....you are proven wrong....again!

 Fact is people....Kelsey WAS an abused child.  Like it or not, that was at least the last months of her life...she lived it abused.
I fully understand that if you are related to one sitting in prison for a part in that innocent baby's murder, that recognizing and admitting the abuse that occurred to Kelsey and for more than just on Oct. 11, 2005 is tough to chew and swallow.  To try to minimize the terror and pain that Kelsey experienced in the months prior to and on the day she was brutally murdered is disgusting in my opinion.  I'm sure there are those involved that would love for this case and it's facts to be buried and "just go away".  Personally, I applaud Kathie Briggs for taking such a personal tragedy in her family and trying to turn it into something positive.  Many good things have come to pass because of Kelsey's story and because of Kathie Briggs.  Kelsey's Law, the Kelsey Hugs project, the Toys for Kelsey's Kids at Christmas time, the work that the foundation is doing, etc etc.  I do not call that exploiting Kelsey. Trying to get justice for your MURDERED grandchild from all parties responsible, is NOT exploiting Kelsey!  Those things are not done for any type of  fame or gain on any part of those involved with those projects nor on Kathie's part.

The implications and accusagtions that  still arise almost daily against Kathie are insane, uncalled for and simply NOT TRUE.  To say that Kathie wanted Kelsey to be an abused child before her death is a new low.  It's also not true that that is the "only way she wants the public to see her".  Kelsey died as a result of child abuse.  Blunt force trauma to the abdomen, IS an intentional act... it  is NOT an "accidental" injury nor a "normal childhood injury", it IS child abuse.  The injuries noted in the autopsy's of the state of Kelsey's broken body show that child abuse HAD been occuring for some time.  Abuse WAS CONFIRMED in this case. The whole state of Oklahoma did not LIE to railroad Raye Dawn into prison. The evidence and facts in this case secured a conviction.

Kathie has done many positive things in Kelsey's memory.  What has the other side of Kelsey's family done positive in her memory?  Try to free her felon mother from prison?  In my opinion, using Kelsey's image, name and likeness in trying to gather support to free her mother from prison when it is a real possibility that her mother killed her is more "exploiting" Kelsey's memory than anything I've seen.  The most popular site in support of Raye Dawn Smith was called Free KELSEY'S Mom, not Free Raye Dawn...using Kelsey's name not her "mothers"!!!  And YES, like it or not it IS a possibility that Raye Dawn delivered the fatal blow to Kelsey.  Let us NOT forget Smothermon's latest statement where he stated that he honestly could not tell you who killed Kelsey...that there IS evidence that points to each...HER and Porter!!   In my opinion  It is a little  too late to be worrying about doing anything "for Kelsey's sake"....Kelsey is dead...murdered by either her OWN mother or Mike Porter!!  I truely wish more would have been more concerned about Kelsey's sake....before she was beaten to death!!!

And yeah, call me the "Kathie Police"....who cares?  I am proud to stand up for Kathie and her actions before and after Kelsey's murder.  At least she has proven she gave a damn.

Response to Jody's comments directed to me....

Jody,

This is not any form of intimidation, harassment, stalking or promoting “hate”. You addressed me personally, so I am only doing the same. I’m not sure this is the type of forum to be doing this, but I have nothing to hide, so if this is where you want to address each other this is ok with me too.


First of all, I assure you and everyone else I can back up what I say also. I do not lie. Posting my opinions or thoughts or things I have been told and have no reason to not believe, does not make me a liar either.


I will first address the issue of the “abortion”. I have never stated that as fact. I did however say that I was told that by a friend of Raye’s from the past that knows her and knew her before Kelsey‘s murder. That was not the only person who told me that. I had/have no reason not to believe what I was told as that person has never lied to me. Also, Porter states that Raye Dawn aborted a child of his, prior to becoming pregnant with Blaine. You say it’s all a lie, but in reality you have no proof it’s a lie, that is just your opinion, I’m sure based on what you consider a reliable source..Raye Dawn and/or Gayla. Just as I cannot say it is fact, neither can you, we are both only going by what we have been told. I have respected your opinion and not called you a liar because you say it isn’t true.


In the beginning of all this, I read documents as they became available, and talked to MANY people. Along the way when someone revealed they knew Raye Dawn BEFORE Kelsey was murdered, if there was an available way to talk to them, I would. I read everything I found on this case. I did not as has been stated, just listen to whatever Kathie said. She also did not “brainwash” me. I read everything, researched and came to my own conclusion. Because my interpretation of the facts and evidence is apparently different from yours, does NOT make me a liar.


I have tried hard to make sure to say if something is my opinion, if I was told or heard it. I feel you on the other hand have purposely mislead the public by stating your opinions as fact. Just as you boldly state as fact that Mike Porter killed Kelsey and sexually assaulted her. That has NOT been proven in a court of law, so it is only your opinion that you state as fact. I believe Raye Dawn killed Kelsey, my opinion based on the facts and evidence of this case as I know them.


You repeatedly state as fact that Lance “ASKED” for a plea for Porter and that is a lie. When in fact the real truth is that when Smothermon went to Lance about the plea, Lance was not comfortable with the amount of time Smothermon was offering in the plea and Lance asked for and got MORE time than Smothermon originally had in the offer. You say you are “good at” investigative research and such. I am then disappointed as a “writer” and “seeker of truth” that you have not researched how that plea came about. I am sure if you were to call Smothermon and ask, he would be honest and tell you that Lance nor any of “the Briggs” asked for him to “give” or offer Porter a plea deal.


You recently stated on your blog, “In fact, the expert witness stated that there was no possible way that Raye Dawn could have injured Kelsey and left the home without Kelsey crying and in a fetal position. Mike Porter and Raye Dawn both agree that Kelsey was on her back and sleeping when Raye Dawn left the house. This proves Raye Dawn's innocence.”
This is incorrect. That is NOT what he stated. Show me in the transcript where he says “there was no possible way that Raye Dawn could have injured Kelsey and left the home without Kelsey crying and in a fetal position.” You can’t, because it isn’t in there. What he DID say is that it could have taken minutes to HOURS for her bleed out. It is also incorrect that Porter agreed that Kelsey was on her back sleeping when Raye left the house.


It appears to me in my opinion, that you intentionally mislead the public in the facts and evidence of this case and misrepresent the truth and facts. Such as, you often state that Smothermon at Raye’s trial stated to Porter that he believed that Porter murdered and sexually assaulted Kelsey. I have NEVER seen where you post the most recent statement by Smothermon, which is where he stated that he “honestly cannot tell you” who killed Kelsey, that there IS evidence which points to each of them. I don’t understand what that is, if it is not intentionally misleading and misrepresenting the facts. I would also point out that Smothermon’s “belief” at the time of Raye’s trial was his “opinion” at that time and nothing more. He did not state it was a fact. If you were to ask his assistant prosecutor she will tell you that she believes that Raye Dawn should have been charged with murder.


I have a question for you? You recently stated that the OCCY report and the Pre-Sentencing reports are not to be believed. The purpose of a pre-sentence report is to aid an appropriate disposition for an offender. Full written pre-sentence reports are to be provided only upon request of a Judge after conviction of an offender. “A presentence report (PSR) is a factual, investigative report.” If a pre-sentencing report is not believable then why would the Court waste the time and money in ordering it? That makes absolutely no sense. I then have to wonder if it had been favorable to RD if it would then be considered “believable” by you. Are we then to seriously believe that those that did the OCCY report, and the pre-sentencing report are all in some state wide “conspiracy” against Raye Dawn Smith? What makes her so special to warrant such a conspiracy? What would be the purpose of such conspiracy?


And I have to respectfully disagree on your statement of “there is no evidence that Raye Dawn did anything to Kelsey except try to protect her.” The truth/fact is that Raye Dawn was confirmed by DHS to be the perpetrator of abuse against Kelsey. In fact, she was the only confirmed perpetrator of abuse to Kelsey. There is evidence Raye was abusive to Kelsey before Porter came into their lives, and not just with that picture.


I have to wonder what your vendetta against Kathie and Lance are. You have stated that you blame Kathie for Raye being in prison, so maybe that is it. I have a hard time trying to figure out and digest the hate and contempt you have for them, since it is always them that are being blamed for everything and discussed and them that are dissected, when they had not only not been in Kelsey’s life the last 4 months of her life, but also had not been with her on Oct. 11, 2005. I have to wonder why your anger and blame and dissection is not on Porter but misplaced on “the Briggs”. They were not in the Porter home on the day Kelsey was murdered. Often you have stated things such as “why isn’t Kathie Briggs in jail”, why wasn’t Kathie at the hearing, etc, etc. Let me ask you a question. What exactly is it that Gayla Smith did to protect Kelsey, or to help keep her safe? See, Kathie wasn’t allowed in Kelsey’s life the last 4 months. She did not see Kelsey, speak to her, or know anything that was going on. Gayla on the other hand was around Kelsey. She saw her condition visually, was able to speak to Kelsey if she wished, and knew what was going on. Yet all she did according to her was to start to “watch him”. If there were things that were concerning her enough for her to start “watching”, then why wouldn’t she contact DHS or the police with her concerns? Why did she not report her suspicions to anyone in an attempt to protect Kelsey? You attack and attack and attack Kathie and Lance, yet they weren’t around Kelsey the last 4 months she was alive.


I was recently sent emails of copies of some things you have posted as recently as December 2009 (one month ago) on other websites. I am having a hard time deciding which scenario you have painted to believe.
Very recently you posted, “My life is more than what I dreamed it could be, but that will never stop me from dreaming.”


On 12/10/09, you post that you are working full time yet on your blog dedicated to personal experiences on which you say you have had all these problems with people you say that your business has been ruined intentionally by others. I have noted however that almost every day you say you are working on something for some “client”.


You also state on 10/27/09, (only 3 months ago), “Ghost writing is a highly sought after service. Many are surprised to learn this, but it's true. On an average day, I have at least one lead from someone in need of a ghost writer. Some days I get up to five leads. It comes to the point that I have to turn down jobs.” Here you state you “turn down jobs” you have so many, yet someone ruined your business?



On 10/13/09, (again only 3 months ago), you post, “They judged me and snickered at me because I don't choose to show my wealth with monetary means”… and “I am a success” and “I'm not concerned with how other people see me, and before becoming involved in that company, I was confident with the way I am.”
But yet you blame KP members for you having “writers block” and for failure in your business?


On 11/11/09, (two months ago), you post under the heading of “With Success Comes Haters”; “Unfortunately, with any success comes jealousy.” So maybe you are wrong in automatically stating as fact that KP members shot your truck and broke into your home, etc, etc. Since you are so successful and others are jealous of your success, maybe it was someone from that scenario instead of Kelsey’s case?
I was particularly intrigued by the heading “Spin your book to market it”. That is interesting.


On 10/25/09, you post, “Today, that confidence allows me to work for a large number of clients.” Yet someone ruined your career?


On 11/12/09, you post, “I have been blessed with an ongoing supply of work and new clients and some days I don't have time to sleep or eat because of the amount of work continually coming my way. I love what I do and I'm thankful for every job I get, large or small, and I love working with all of my clients. My life is never boring. “


According to this website, you apparently did well enough to not only provide for your own family but to provide running water and an indoor bathroom for another family, plus buy gifts at Christmas for seven children besides your own.


Another post of yours, “My schedule stays full; I typically have a waiting list. If you are considering a project in the future, keep in mind that I usually am booked a month in advance. That's not a hard and fast rule, but for the past six years, it stays consistent. “ Again, you say this yet on your most recent blog you say that KP members and the things that you accuse them of doing caused you so much stress that you had writers block for two years and ruined your business.


So when you post on your blog entitled “Jody Ortiz - My Story” that I threatened and succeeded in ruining your business, that is obviously and now proven…a lie. I never threatened to ruin you, your business or any such thing. That was not the intent of that email and neither was blackmail. Very recently one of yours/Raye’s supporters has been having email conversations with a Kelsey supporter and has stated that they think this whole thing is a publicity stunt for attention for your book. They also stated they don’t know why I don’t just “shut up” and that they are afraid of you. They have also stated your involvement in the ordeal with my ex. I don’t know for a fact if you talked to my ex or not, but that can be found out. I do know however that you are the one (I have copies of the posts from your site) that told your members to “research” me and said “Bring me the dirt!!” You also stated how you spent a whole day yourself “researching” me, but all you found was that I seemed to be an advocate for Domestic Violence, and that you did “not find anything juicy”. I can prove that you have stalked me and promoted hate against me by asking people to research me to find dirt on me, giving personal information to Gayla in order to contact my ex and rile him up against me. You have been sorely disappointed because you won’t find anything “juicy” on me. All you will find is that I am a victim of Domestic Violence and have spent over 10 years trying to protect my children from harm/death. You will find that I advocate for DV victims and children who are victims of abuse. You have found out I am very passionate about these issues and am not afraid to voice my opinions or stand up for what I believe in, despite since being made aware of Kelsey’s case, had my life and family threatened by a member of your group and the threats to find my ex and tell him what sites I frequent and get him involved in this fiasco to try to scare me into shutting up about what I believe happened to Kelsey. Yes I have said some things that weren’t nice about Raye Dawn and the Smiths. I have as you know because you forwarded the post to Janet, apologized publicly to Janet for anything I might have said about her IF I said anything and for my own personal assumptions about her.


As for the “road rage” incident, I believe it to be true. Royce had two of his workers with him, you and your truck were identified as the person in the vehicle who did this. Those people do not know who you are and have no reason to lie and no way of knowing what you looked like.


I don’t know what you know how to do on a computer, if you can “hack” or send viruses or whatever. I do know however that you have stated that you can trace an ip to someone’s front door.


And no, I do not “know” nor do I even believe that you can back up everything you say. See, I know for a fact you cannot prove that 800 books of Key’s pathetic book (my opinion of it, which I’m entitled to) were returned by “KP members” as you stated as fact. I also know you cannot prove that you know for a fact it was “KP members” that did alleged damage to your truck or allegedly broke into your home yet these are things you state as FACT, which make them a lie. You also cannot prove that I tried to “blackmail” you as you state as fact, because I did not. I also did not threaten to, nor did I “succeed” in ruining your business as you have stated as fact. . Your very, very recent posting on other websites which have been screenshot, prove that that is also a lie.


When you repeatedly stated as fact that you were not” truthseeker“, that was also a lie. A lie is a lie is a lie. Does not matter the reason for the lie. Every liar has a reason/excuse for the lies they tell, but the reasons/excuses do not make them any less a lie.



So when you state, “I'm stating that we've had enough of the lies. I'm asking that people quit saying things that are untrue.” I have to say that that is exactly what I have been saying for the past few years to you.
You ask “If I'm a liar, why do I matter? Think about it.” Maybe you are the one who needs to “think about it”. But my response to that is….You don’t matter, your lies and false allegations against people absolutely DO matter.




This posting is not an attack on you. You addressed me and I answered. You asked questions and I answered. You have made allegations against me and others and I posted proof in response to only a couple of those allegations. I stated observations and my opinions based on the facts as I know them.
This next statement is my observation and opinion. Your postings under your real name on your new blog and those of your “truthseeker” and other nicknames portray two very different people. That is fact and can be proven. One has to wonder which is the real you, and which one is possibly the one made up to garner sympathy in the false claims of being a victim and/or to get attention and publicity for your “career” and “book”. A vendetta against Kathie, Lance, myself and others will not prove Raye Dawns innocence and will not prove you are a victim of anything and it will not sell your book. You do exactly what you accuse others of doing, all of which can be proven. I do not state I can prove something if there is any doubt at all that I can.




I am all for some resolution of peace. I also agree that the lies and false allegations have to stop for that to happen. That includes yours. Your postings of your opinions stated as fact are nothing more than misleading, misrepresentation and lying. Asking that you stop misleading, misrepresenting the facts and evidence and posting your opinions as fact is NOT trying to silence you, or stop the truth from coming out. Hopefully a murder charge will be secured against Raye Dawn and then the truth will be exposed in this case and come out in a court of law. One can hope. So are you in agreement to stop lying and your vendetta against Kathie, Lance, myself and KP members? Because you don’t like my opinions of Raye Dawn, Gayla or this case does not give you any rights to attack me, stalk me, harass me, send people to get personal information on me, lie about me or accuse me of things that I have not done and would not do. If the lying, posting opinions as fact and falsely accusing people of things stops then I don’t see how there would be any need/reason for either of us to discuss or post anything related to either of us, do you? And again let me state this is in no way trying to blackmail anyone, or “silence” them, it is only trying to find a way and common ground and agreement to stop all the nonsense that is going on. In order to do that common ground has to be found and a mutual agreement would have to be reached I would think…is that not true? That is the only intent of these statements and nothing more. You said to me you want peace and the lies to stop. Here is my open offer to you…again…the ball is in your court. No lies, no misrepresentation of facts, no falsely accusing, no posting personal opinions as fact on either of our parts. I will be awaiting your response.

Craig Key

Well it seems Craig Key is back on the news again.  It is NOT because of the Briggs, nor anything to do with them.  He did it all on his own...again.  I will post the article or link when I find it.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

The ball is in now in your court......

So...EVERYONE says they want this madness to stop.  So how do we stop it? I'd like to know what has to be done to call a truce? (for lack of a better word at the moment)
Seems nothing we've tried in the past has ever helped to stop it.  We stop posting about her and it still continues.  Now she says she doesn't want to "sue", she just wants it to stop. So, what does that mean exactly?  NONE of us she has accused has done the things she says.  I, nor any KP member I know of has "stalked, threatened, harrassed, shot at, broke into her home, keyed her vehicle (as in earlier reports) or any of the things stated has been done to her.  I, nor any KP member I know of has ever told anyone to "go get her" as she says.  I, nor any KP member I know of has "threatened to ruin" her business.  I know she repeatedly posts an email I sent her several years ago, and claims that I attempted to "blackmail" her.  That is NOT true.  There was NO intent of "blackmail", written nor implied in the email I wrote.  I admitted that I wrote it because I have nothing to hide.  I am not responsible for how an individual "interprets" things.  All I am responsible for is the intent on my part.  I have no reason to lie.  I am NOT afraid to face her inside a court room, so no, I am not "backpeddling" or "backing down" from anyone.  I know what the truth is.  AND have the proof to prove it.

With all that being said, if anyone cares to relay to me what her proposition/remedy is on "ending" this crap, I am open and interested to hear it.  I will be honest and say however, if the book is published and has in it the things she threatens to put in there, there will be a future court date.  I will not stand by and do nothing, if I am in that book and lied about.  The "hate", "trashing", "lies" and "madness" has to stop on BOTH sides.  If what it takes to "end this" is one sided and that means that everyone else that doesn't believe Raye Dawn is innocent has to stop posting their opinions and thoughts and facts  and her and her "supporters" as she calls them, can continue to post lies, trash, promote hate towards others, etc, then I don't believe that is a genuine plea/offer of "ending the madness".  You spoke publicly of wanting this crap to stop.  I for one am willing to listen to what your proposition/remedy is to stopping it.  The ball is in your court now.

Now,... only because in the past, things have been misunderstood?, interpreted wrongly, whatever the case may be..., let me make this VERY clear.  Nothing in this post is expressed, implied nor intended to be "threatening", to be "blackmail" or anything of such nature.  All I'm trying to do is find out since she says she wants this to end, what it will take from her prespective to end the nonsense going on.  As I said, the ball is now in your court.  You know my email address, you can email me, or you can have someone relay your thoughts on how to stop all the crap going on .... I assure you I can be civil and grown up...

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Liability research

I have been doing some research on the issue of legal liability in writing/ publishing a book and  claiming it is a "true story" and in naming names, quoting people, etc.  If you think you may be a victim of the book just being written, I would advise you to do some research, there are many more laws covering this than even I thought.  Interesting read and will give you an idea of your rights to sue for not only libel but other things.  We are anxiously awaiting the new book.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Raye Dawn deserves "respect"??

ARE YOU KIDDING ME??  Raye Dawn has already gotten more than she deserves when she got ONLY a 27 yr prison sentence! MY OPINION
 I just got a message that someone posted that Raye was Kelsey's mother and deserves respect.  Absoutely scary that people actually think that. What about what Kelsey deserved?  She deserved to live without pain and fear.  She deserved to have her daddy in her life and for her mother to give her the things her daddy sent her.  She deserved to be cherished and loved and NOT just when it was convenient or "show" for another.  She deserved to be loved and protected from the evils in this world, and if that included an evil mother and stepfather, then she also deserved to be protected from that.  Kelsey also "deserved respect"... and deserved to LIVE...but she wasn't allowed even THAT was she?

 Someone else says they forgive Raye for "whatever youthful judgement played a role in her decision making".  Go ahead and forgive her, that is your right. But she will NOT get forgiveness from the one that matters and that is GOD, without admitting to him what she has done.  Looking at the autopsy photos of little Kelsey's beaten and battered body makes it hard for one to "forgive" without admission of the truth. 

To each their own as I've stated, but that statement about her deserving respect literally made me sick to my stomach.  Poor Kelsey....deserved so much more in her short life than she was allowed to have.  There really IS evil in this world..........

My thoughts today....

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=17264125


I will warn you the video is graphic.  But so is child abuse.  No matter how hard it is for us to view things like this, it's nothing compared to what these children suffer at the hands of their abusers.  As I look at these innocent faces, my heart breaks for them.  I wonder what they are thinking,... how their trust has been completely broken,... their innocence lost.  Their eyes seem clouded with pain and confusion.  Their bodies, pictures painted of the torment and trauma they were made to endure. 

Some people have a hard time understanding why and how anyone can be angry at Raye Dawn.  Let's for a minute suppose that she didn't kill Kelsey, which you all know my opinion is she did.  Why would we still not be angry at Raye Dawn for not protecting her child?   If a mother won't protect her child from the evils in the world....who in God's name will

Some of Raye's supporters think that Raye didn't know Kelsey was being abused.  That in and of itself is absurd.  Kelsey was removed from Raye Dawn because of allegations of abuse!  Raye Dawn herself was the only person in this case listed as a perpetrator of abuse confirmed against Kelsey.  But she didn't know her child was being abused?  Kelsey had broken bones and bruising constantly before being removed from Raye Dawn's care.  Her supporters say it was all "normal childhood injuries".  Is that so.  Then I wish someone would explain to me why when Kelsey was removed from Raye Dawn, the injuries and bruising stopped?? Immediately upon return to Raye Dawn, it all started again.  "Childhood injuries" do not, I repeat DO NOT just happen when children are with only certain people!! 

Raye Dawn claims that she was "always" with Kelsey.  Yet each time there was an injury or bruising, she blamed Porter and she supposedly wasn't around.  The injuries and bruising was constantly happening....so much for "always" being with Kelsey.  Her mother admitted "we was starting to watch him".  If they were concerned enough to start watching him, why didn't they contact the authorities? DHS? SOMEONE?  Instead, if you believe Porter killed Kelsey, they "watched" as Kelsey was brutally abused and murdered and could have prevented it by removing Kelsey from the situation and reporting their suspicions to the proper people.  They did neither.  So IF she didn't deliver the fatal blow, she stood by and did nothing, she kept leaving her child with someone that was hurting her and allowed her to be brutally murdered.  IF that were the case, we aren't supposed to be angry about that?  We shouldn't want her to pay her debt to Kelsey for what she "watched" and allowed?  Please.  Yes, other people and agencies failed Kelsey also, but Raye Dawn was her "MOTHER".   There were TWO people in that home and those two people were the ones around Kelsey the past four months of Kelsey's short life.  IF Raye Dawn knew she wasn't doing it...then she had, HAD to know it was Porter doing it, and still she left Kelsey with him on Oct. 11, 2005, the day Kelsey's short life was taken from her and her daddy was robbed of his little girl. 

Again we all have our opinions. Mine is... I don't really see how $1500 dollars of now alleged "bad checks" would be motive to murder a 2 yr old child.  No one has ever came forward to say that he was upset or agitated or concerned over that, not even Raye Dawn herself.  It seems to me that more stories appear to pop up when prior ones are disproved or simply don't work.  But maybe that is what you have to do when the truth is not on your side.  Several facts have been twisted and manipulated even recently, and of course then you have the blame game going on.  Can't defend RD with the real truth and the real facts so time to play another round of "Blame Game".  Pathetic at best.

Fact: the media did not convict Raye Dawn.  Fact:  "The Briggs  did not convict Raye Dawn.  She is in prison for her own actions and/or lack of.  Fact:  The Briggs do not believe Mike Porter killed Kelsey.  Based on the evidence of the case, they fully believe that Raye Dawn killed her own child.  Fact:  "The Briggs" do not have mind control over the entire state of Oklahoma and half the world.  Fact:  There is no "Briggs gang".  Fact:  Mike Porter has not been convicted of the murder of Kelsey Briggs.  Fact: It IS possible according to the evidence that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey.  Fact:: If you believe Porter is innocent of the murder of Kelsey, it does not mean you are a "Porter supporter" nor does it mean you have conjugal visits with him in prison. It also does not mean you are "disgusting".  Fact:  If you believe Raye Dawn Smith is guilty of murdering Kelsey, you are entitled to that opinion and it does not mean you are a "hater", belong to a "hate group" or a "gang" or that you are a "liar", or that you are led around by the nose by Kathie or any of "The Briggs".   Fact: Porter was not home alone with Kelsey for "45 minutes".  Fact:  Lance Briggs did not go to the DA and "ask for a plea deal".  Fact:  KP is not a "hate group".  Fact:  Contrary to what you have read and seen, there is not two seperate sets of rules, one for those those that support Raye Dawn being innocent and those that support the truth and facts in Raye Dawn's guilt in this case. 

I stand behind the truth and the evidence in this case and stand behind my opinion based on those things, that Raye Dawn Smith killed her 2 year old daughter, Kelsey Briggs.  If you want to continue to bash me, lie about me, trash me, stalk me, harrass me, accuse me of doing absurd things I do not do and  bring danger to me and my family because of my opinion, then so be it.  You will not shut me up.  I have the same right to express my thoughts and opinions on this case and any other thing I so choose, the same as you do.  I will continue to post the truth about your lies, your stalking and harrassment and continue with my opinion that you are a true hypocrite.  I do live in the United States of America and exercise my rights as a citizen of such.

So there is NO confusion as to what I mean here is the definition of HYPOCRITE.

Main Entry: hyp·o·crite


Pronunciation: \ˈhi-pə-ˌkrit\

Function: noun

Etymology: Middle English ypocrite, from Anglo-French, from Late Latin hypocrita, from Greek hypokritēs actor, hypocrite, from hypokrinesthai

Date: 13th century

1 : a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion

2 : a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings



— hypocrite adjective

I have been asked by several people lately on what I base my opinion of Raye Dawn being "guilty" of murdering Kelsey.  Within the next few days I will post the reasons for that opinion.

Have a great night all... God Bless

Monday, January 18, 2010

People...

I'm still taking a break from the insanity going on and believe me, enjoying it.  I do however, want to post a short post on something that I keep coming across...actually maybe a couple things lol.

First of all, I know people have different opinions and that is great and as it should be.  If we all had the same opinions we would be a very dull society.  People judging people however, for a difference in opinion and harrassing and stalking them, making up lies, etc., is quite another.

 I'm having a hard time understanding what is so hard about believing that Kathie actually believed Raye Dawn killed Kelsey when she was corresponding by email with Porter.  Believing that, WHY would she not?  People go to prisons to talk to those convicted of murdering their loved ones.  I have to wonder now, if they are judged as harshly as Kathie has been.  What about those that stand up in court at the trial of the one who killed their loved one, and say to the person convicted..."I forgive you", or those family members of the victim that actually ask for the court to spare the life of the one convicted of murdering their loved one?  Are they judged as harshly?  It has NOT been proven in a court of law that Mike Porter killed Kelsey, yet Kathie is cruicified daily for her communication with him.  I really don't understand that.

Another recent thing I don't get is, why are the supporters of one of the people sitting in prison in the death of Kelsey Briggs, demanding to know where the proceeds from the upcoming book "Who Killed Kelsey?" are going?  Do they contact every author before reading their book, demanding to know where the money from the book is going?  Why do they think they are entitled to demand and know that information?  If they are suspicious of where the proceeds from the book are going to go, the solution is simple....don't spend your money on it.  I honestly believe that it makes no difference what answer is given...it's the wrong one.  Maybe the ONLY "right" one, would be if it were donated to Raye Dawn to help free her from prison. 

Amazing the things that get picked apart.  And mostly the things that have no bearing on the murder of little Kelsey, nor on who is responsible for dealing the fatal blow on Oct. 11, 2005.

And just for the record, the FACT is, Porter was not home alone with Kelsey for 45 minutes. LOL they can't get anyone to buy he did it in the 15-20min. that he actually was with her, so like everything else....they stretch it.

Just so you all know, I'm really not totally idle, in the few days I've been away from here, I've been very productive and accomplished a great deal.  Actually one thing is quite amazing.  Unfortunately, I cannot share the amazing accomplishements at this time, and you all know why.  Just know that ...Life is good!!

 Have a great night all... Be Back Soon.

Friday, January 15, 2010

It never stops......

Well, I awoke today to find that I am being talked about and named again by the person stalking and harrassing me, lying as usual.  It never stops.  First of all, I've never put her address "on another website".  The information that Kathie had put on KP was information that was readily available on several of her other websites.   Why the lies and accusations continue is beyond me.  She states she wants it to stop, but then she starts naming names and making accusations... yet again. 

I can tell you from experience, when you ARE being "stalked" you don't incite or invite/provoke more behavior.  You don't chase your stakers all around to monitor what they are doing, who they are talking to, who their friends are, nor do you call them out and boldly lie about them and invite more problems.  Other than the fact that I KNOW that Kathie and I and Shonya and others are not stalking or harrassing her, that is another point in proof.

When I was being stalked, I did everything I could to stay away from, not talk to, not have any dialogue directly or indirectly with that person,  I never lied about that person nor accused them of anything, true or not, that might insite anger and a response from that person.  There were a couple times we had police sitting outside our home all night long.  There were times when my children and I were escorted home by law enforcement and our home checked before we were allowed to go inside.  Once we had a police escort home when I went to pick my children up from school.  There were times we had to hide from my stalker.  I KNOW WHAT STALKING IS AND WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE STALKED AND AFRAID FOR MY LIFE AND THAT OF MY FAMILY!!  I can assure you I would never try to incite that kind of FEAR in someone else, nor would I condone it, nor "get" or "hire" someone else to do it. 

Recently she did state that she no longer fears us, and I'm happy with that admission since there was no reason to fear any of us that she's named nor anyone we know or associate with. THAT is crazy talk.  I am not responsible for what others do.  Neither is Kathie nor anyone else.  I know she stated somewhere, and I have a copy of it, that Lance posted somewhere and told people to "go get her". That is totally asinine.  How in the world she can accuse and state something as fact like that is beyond me.  Lance doesn't even know who she is, he knows nothing about her, nor does he care to I'm sure.  He wouldn't have been able to pick her out in the courtroom at that hearing if someone would have offered him a million dollars cash right there on the spot.

After doing a lot of thinking today, I've decided to hold off for now on posting more evidence/documents to back up the things I have stated.  I assure you I do have them...and much more.  Although dissappointing to some, please bear with me until you finish reading today's post and hopefully you will understand and agree.

While driving back from taking my daughter back tonight, in between a couple of phone conversations, something came to my mind from back when my ex was stalking me.  When I asked him once why he was  calling me only to start trouble and argue, his replied that, "negative attention from you is better than NO attention at all".  WOW!  Suddenly a LOT of things started to make sense to me.  When I was reflecting tonight on the things that are and have been going on lately and for some time, I had another "WOW" moment, and once again, a LOT of things started making more sense.

After not posting on here for a couple of days, Kathie and I were once again named and the idea planted in the  readers minds that we might have "hired" someone to do things that have allegedly happened.  I realized as I drove home that it appears to be another attempt at provoking me to respond, and I refuse to be a part of that insanity any longer.  I realized she's been feeding off the attention all along and only getting hungrier. And that is NOT a good sign.

Reflecting back on things the past few weeks, I realized something and it scared the crap out of me.  Looking back, I get the feeling that we are being set up.  Whether some nut actually does something stupid, or harms her or whether she "hires" someone to do it to her, or does it to herself...she is setting us up to take the fall.  She is the one that called this "fun and games".  As I previously stated, I don't consider this fun, nor do I consider it a game. People that consider it a "game" are dangerous and I refuse to be a part of, contribute to, or play... a game that can turn deadly.  I also remembered that my ex called it a "game" too, and that is what scared me.  I don't like the mental state one apparently has to be in, to consider this kind of stuff a "game".  I refuse to be drawn into the insanity of all this any longer. It has become scary and crossed the lines to dangerous. "GAME" OVER .   One can only play a "game" by themselves so long before they get bored.

I am going to take about 3 or 4 days off to do some things I need and want to do.  I will be back, just won't be used as a pawn in anyone's "game" when I return.  Thank you to those of you who've been reading and contributing and supporting us through the insanity of not only the past few weeks, but the past few years. We appreciate not only your concern but your support.  'Till we meet again my friends.....

 May God Bless you and keep you safe.....

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Who should have the "Liar, Liar" video dedicated to them now??











Ok I have had enough and feel I have been forced to defend myself, my character, that of Kathie, Shonya and others.  I am not posting this stuff in any malicious way, with any malscious intent, not with any intent to do anyone harm in any way personal, business or otherwise.  I do however have to prove that I am not a liar and neither is Kathie.  The recent postings on a certain blog have become way beyond reasonable.  You can't post lies about people and accuse them of doing things they are NOT, (esp. when YOU are doing them) and not expect people to defend themselves. 
Here is an excerpt I was sent from Jody's blog from today...

"I've been accused of hacking into someone's computer, giving Facebook a computer virus, hacking into Kelsey's Purpose, lying, road rage, making up aliases to stalk people, moderating Topix and deleting the haters' posts, impersonating Raye Dawn, having a Facebook page for Kelsey, and who knows what other lies they're telling. As I look at the list of allegations against me, I'm floored that someone would actually think that they could sue me and win. I guess they have forgotten that I have the truth on my side."

As you can see by the documents posted, WE are not the "liars".  WE are not the ones "making up aliases to stalk people"!!  The words in the documents from the author speak for themselves.  I will not let you defame me or my character or that of others or lie about us without defending said lies.

MUCH MORE TO COME

And NO, her email was NOT hacked into!!!   I was sent a bunch of things from someone that is tired of the lies told on some of  us that she is falsely accusing of doing things that we are not, have not, and would not do. 

DEFINITION OF "THREAT".....

From the Merriam Webster Dictionary

Threat : an expression of intention to inflict evil, injury, or damage

Another from the...
Legal Dictionary


Main Entry: threat

Function: noun

: an expression of an intention to injure another

From Kathie Briggs

Kathie Briggs asked me to post this notice to Jody Ortiz..


Enough is enough. You have spread lies long enough and now that you have written them using your actual name I will be filing a lawsuit. I have never harassed you and I have never posted, read, or logged into Topix. Since Raye's criminal trial I have made few posts and when I do it is with my name. You have twisted words, and flat lied about me and my family long enough. My suggestion to you: start working to prove everything you have said about me is true. If you only have to justify the lies on this site my case is strong. I might add you have also lied about the actions of our attorney's on this site as well.
You claim to be a victim. From what I see you seek the all the attention you can get. As for me: I am only responsible for my statements and my actions as are the other parties to this lawsuit. I have been preparing and saving for this for two years and will be well prepared for all the lies you have told. I honestly don't see the Smith family wanting to help you with your legal fees when they have a family member needing their help. You see, I don't blame them for working as hard as they can for Raye even though I am on the opposite side. You haven't helped Raye at all...and now you have your own legal battle to fight.
Do you remember the day you engaged in road rage against my husband and two of his employees on I-40? Had that not happened your identity would have remained secret for a much longer time. Since then we have been offered proof that you are "truthseeker" and that you used the name "Mary Thompson" to spy on KP members. So when this lawsuit is ready to file I will not be the only plaintiff listed. The list of people you have harassed and slandered is long. As with any good case we have been patient long enough to get all the facts and proof we need to build a rock solid case.

If you genuinely feel your life is in danger I feel for you. I too have a list for the authorities if anything should happen to me and your name is on the top of the list. All of this could have been prevented had you logged off your computer and left us alone.
Another suggestion: when you post the rest of your hearing testimony....remember we can get a copy of the transcript so it needs to be accurate.

A final note: I can't wait for your book to come out. I will be first in line to get a copy in hopes I can use it in this lawsuit.

One more note:


You have made many incorrect statements on your notes about the depositions. I can prove your posts are lies. Your comments about the attorneys are uncalled for and also untrue. Keep posting and thanks.

Sunday, January 10, 2010

rjb

I want to post a few things about rjb.  First she is right, I know her and Shonya are two seperate people.  Concerned can also verify that.  Mary, I appreciate what you said in your comment. 
rjb and I met because of Kelsey's story.  I will forever be grateful for that.  She is an amazing woman with such courage and strength, I am continually amazed by her daily.  She is a true survivor.  We have become as close or closer than sisters.  We refer to each other as sisters.  We have been through some things together that not many can say.  She is and will forever be in my heart.  She has touched my life in many ways, and I am a better person for having her in my life and having the priveledge of knowing her.  No matter what life brings we will always be close, in this life and beyond.  I fully believe that.  Her heart has always been in the right place for Kelsey.  I just wanted to acknowledge what a  special person she is and how blessed I am to have come to know her and gotten close to her and it is because of Kelsey and her story.  Good things not only for children, but true, heartfelt, lifelong and beyond friendships have come to be, all because Kelsey and her story.  One day we will be able to thank Miss Kelsey when we all get to heaven. 
Sister if you read this, I love you and keep you close in my heart every day.  Hugs...

Opinion vs. Fact

We all have our own opinions.  They are just that.  Opinions.  They may be opinions based on fact but still "opinions" nonetheless.  Why one side feels more entitled than the other, to not only have, but to express their own opinions is beyond me.  Why one feels "entitled" that only their opinion is the factual, right one, is beyond me.  I understand everyone thinks they are right.  I think I am too.  But I have tried very hard to state in my postings on the Kelsey Briggs case, if things are my opinions, if they are fact, if it was something I was told, or heard.  Yes, I could have overlooked that on postings from time to time.  But I do not intentionally post my opinion as fact. I do not say..."it is FACT that Raye Dawn Porter Smith killed Kelsey".  I state that it is my opinion that she did, based on the facts and evidence in this case.  My opinion very well could be right.  The majority of what I have seen from people in polls, on the internet and in speaking in general to people, the majority have the same opinion as I do.  Does that make it right? No.  But it doesn't make me wrong either.
Because I feel (in my opinion) that Raye Dawn is the guilty one, does not mean that I am a "Porter supporter), it doesn't mean I have "conjugal visits" with him in prison,  nor does it mean I think he is totally innocent in this.  Kelsey said that "daddy Mike" hurt her head.  I believe Kelsey.  The only time I have any kind of problem with that is when I think of the several times that Raye Dawn stated that -if you tell a child something enough they believe it-  I often wonder why she would even say that.
If I had been sitting in the courtroom at either the trial or the hearing and taken notes, I do not believe it would be fair to post publicly, my own interpretations of someone's behaviors, figeting, etc.  What I may perceive as Raye Dawn's chains rattling when her leg was shaking during testimony, as being her being nervous because she was lying, another may percieve as being visibly shaken and distraught with grief.  For me to post my interpretations of the actions or behaviors, to me would be misleading to the reader. They weren't there, and my interpretation may not be the way the reader would have interpreted the same things.  To me, that would be misrepresenting the truth.  If I truely believed what I believe and have faith in my opinions and the facts and evidence as I see them, why would I feel the need to add my little remarks and opinions in with the facts?  I simply wouldn't.
 I have no stake in the outcome of this case.  None.  Raye Dawn is sitting in prison to serve a 27 yr sentence.  I don't believe she will be getting out any time soon.  I have a right to that belief, as it is my opinion.  My opinions will not change that.  Nothing I say will change that.  The facts of the case are what they are.  They are not changing either.
Yes, I have stood up for the Briggs.  So what?  That is my right as it is the right of the supporters of Raye to support and stand up for her.  I do have a problem with people lying about the Briggs in a sleazy attempt at defending Raye Dawn.  If you have no other defense of her, than to lay blame and suspision on one of the Briggs, then you really have no defense at all of Raye Dawn.  The facts are, the Briggs tried to get help and protect Kelsey.  Gayla stated "we was starting to watch him".  Did she call DHS or law enforcement to report her suspicions that caused her and RD to start to "watch him"?  Did she email the Govenor? Howard Hendrick? anyone? about her suspicions? No.  Would it have made a difference if she had done any of those things?  We will never know, will we?  Knowing that her daughter had her child taken away from her because of abuse and allegations of abuse, I would think she would have done something. I don't have to live with that though, she does.  Kathie did everything she knew to do to help save Kelsey.  But in the end this is what matters and this is the facts...Gayla, Kathie and Lance did NOT kill Kelsey.  The only two people with Kelsey with the opportunity were Porter and Raye Dawn. That's it.  So, no it does no good to speculate on what if Gayla did this, well if Kathie hadn't done that, if Lance had done this.....no good at all...none of them killed Kelsey.  more later....

Saturday, January 9, 2010

The Day After, con't...

I have been sent some emails asking about a comment made on another blog.  Comments are being made that Lance was "staring down" Raye Dawn and gave her "looks of hate" and that a "marshal" had to "put him in his place" several times.
First of all, I am unaware of any law that says it is against the law for Lance to "stare at", give "looks of hate", glare, or any such thing towards the person he believes killed his precious daughter. I don't know if he stared at her or not, but I would assume they were ALL staring at her if they were looking at her during her testimony in front of the court while on the witness stand.  I asked several people who were there and not one of them saw any "marshal" or anyone else put Lance "in his place" one time, let alone several.  Yes he is angry at Raye Dawn and that anger is not misplaced.  Who is anyone to say how Lance should feel?  He believes Raye Dawn killed his baby girl, why would he NOT be angry at her?  Even if he believed Porter did it, I would think he would still be angry at Raye Dawn for NOT PROTECTING their child! I'm sure he is angry at Porter too, but in believing that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey, his anger is not misplaced.  What is NOT being reported back is that Lance cried most of the day.  It was I'm sure very emotional for him.  I can't imagine having to sit there in a room all day with the person who I believed was responsible for killing my child, let alone having to watch them testify and look at them during that time.  Jeanna stated that her brother is broken and they do not know how to fix him.  Her testimony was heartwrenching according to those there at court.  Made me cry listening to what she said when I was told.  You know, she lost not only Kelsey, but the brother she used to have, he's just not the same person anymore without his child.  I can't imagine. My heart goes out to each and every one of the Briggs family. The devastation, years later is still obvious.
It also seems that because of some posting on another blog that there is some confusion as to Porter. He was NOT at the hearing yesterday.  The things described are apparently from his deposition.  I would think the difference shown by the attorney between Porter and Raye Dawn says a whole lot.  No law says if he shook Porters hand, he MUST skake Raye's.  Maybe he didn't want to shake Raye's because he thinks she is the one guilty of killing Kelsey?  I did NOT STATE THAT AS FACT, just said "maybe".  And maybe he just didn't want to shake her hand without any specific reason.

The Day AFter Con't

I have a few minutes so I do want to post something.  First of all, besides the decision of my daughter to come for a visit, Kathie and I had discussed me driving such a distance with the weather calling for more snow in my area.  We still have ice from the Christmas storm and counting yesterday two more snows since Christmas. Although Kathie stated that she would love for me to be there for support, she was more concerned with my safety in traveling all that way as our area was calling for more snow yesterday which we got some, but not a lot. It was not worth risking lives if the weather became bad again.  And as I stated the Briggs did not need me there in person to know that I fully support them.
Another thing I want to comment on is this.  On another blog it was pointed out that Raye had 22 "supporters" there in support of her. My question is this...how many of those "supporters" actually got up on the stand to "support" Raye in testifying as to how the loss of Kelsey has affected her life??
I'll answer my own question. NONE. The only one who testified IN SUPPORT of Raye Dawn, was Raye Dawn herself.  Even her mother did not get up on the stand and testify as to how the loss of Kelsey has affected Raye Dawn and her life. So, did she actually have "support"?  IN MY OPINION, no, she did not.  However, all of the Briggs family members that were there, got up on the stand to support Lance and testify how the loss of Kelsey in his life has drastically affected his life.  In my opinion, THAT is what support is, and shows support of a person, not how many show up and do nothing.  More comments on the hearing later...

The Day After....

Yesterday was the hearing for Raye Dawns petition to get half or more of the DHS settlement awarded to Lance Briggs.  No, I didn't go and yes I had said that I was.  So what?  Things happen and change. That doesn't mean that I "lied" as Jody states today.  My daughter and grandbaby are here, got here Tues. and I decided to spend time with my family.  See, family is what is important, not Raye Dawn.  The Judge isn't going to give her any of that money anyway.  Wondering why Jody cared so much? I try to forget the stalking, and how big of a deal my simple words are to her, next time my plans change, I will try to remember to post them so she knows and doesn't get worked up over it. Someone said maybe I should feel "special" that the day that was supposed to be for Raye, I was singled out and mentioned on her blog. lol yeah boy don't I. (puke) Some say that shows how deep her obsession with me is. ???  Of course she states that she only reads posts on Topix with her name, guess what? Her name was not in that post. Don't know why she cares whether I was there or not.  Seems she was bragging how there were 22 supporters there for Raye and you notice in parenthesis..."(The Briggs had a few of their family members there and one friend, Lori-there were seven for their side. Of course Starla and Jullie lied about going.)".  I didn't know she would consider this a competition or maybe I would have taken time and went.  See, the Briggs do not need to see me there in person to know they have my full support. THEY understand the importance of family and spending time with your children and grandbabies....you never know what might happen.  Time with family is more important than Raye Dawn or Jody's apparent competition or her obsession/stalking.  Sometimes you try to forget your stalker is so focused on you, and tries to watch your every word. And Jullie didn't lie, as I stated, things come up, plans change and that doesn't make anyone a "liar" that is just.. Life As It Is....
More on the hearing later, things to do today....

Thursday, January 7, 2010



Ok, so this is the beginning of addressing the issues of the stalking behaviors, harrassement and lies of Jody Ortiz.  The following is posted not to stalk, harrass, blackmail nor any other such accusation she has already made against not only me but others. The following IS in defense of said accusations from Jody.
Jody has been blogging about me and others for 25 days now, yet we are the stalkers and harrassers? I don't think so, and the following will prove who IS the stalker and harrasser.
On day one of her blog she posts... "I'm shocked at how people can read something and take it as fact and then jump on the hate parade. Why do people think that toying with lives and picking apart details about people they know nothing about is fun? What is missing in their lives that they spend hours every day harassing and stalking people? "
My response to this is as follows.  Yes, I and others are shocked too at this behavior. We don't understand how she thinks toying with the lives of others is fun either. She appeared in my opinion, to have a grand old time of making fun of Shonya for posting that she is a virgin. I am wondering what is missing from HER life that she has to spend hours every day for the last couple of years stalking and harrassing me and others?  What is it she hoped to gain? She has made some serious accusations against me and others and it is time to post the proof to back what I have said and proof to prove she is the liar and hater and that she has promoted hate towards members of KP, Shonya, Kathie Briggs and I for quite some time now.  She has also encouraged members of her websites to stalk and harrass others too. There is some debate, as she is denying owning any of the sites. However, I will post proof that she did at one time own the freekelseysmom site. That is the main site where all the hatred, lies, stalking etc was being posted about and encouraged.  Also, as I was told, Richard Smothermon issued a subpeona to identify who owned the http://www.richardsmothermon.com/ site when it was just in the beginning stages. The subpeona showed, according to what I was told, that SHE owned that site, along with the freekelseysmom site and others. If I remember correctly there were 13 sites altogether she owned at that time. 
I will post proof of her and others making fun of Shonya for being a virgin a little later. First things first.  She has been denying she is Truthseeker since the subpeona identified her. I'll post proof she is Truthseeker, and many other aliases.  Only a select few of her own members knew the truth, so she was being deceptive to those who were befriending her on her site.
She started a petition and this is the preamble to her petition.  "The Internet and social networking Web sites are being abused and used to form hate groups. People like the creator of this petition are being stalked, harassed, and cyber bullied and the hate grows due to the ease of access of the Internet and the ability to make claims about someone and threaten them by the use of false identities."  Funny, how she is advocating against the very thing she does herself.  I will also post proof of her using "false identities" to stalk others. 
One thing she is going to learn about me, I don't lie, I don't need to...I have the truth on my side.  If I say I have "proof" of something, I do.  I have received several emails lately warning me to be careful. People are stating that they are fearful for my life and what she might do when these things are posted.  I am always very cautious, being a DV victim...you learn.  It is the principal of the whole thing, how long do you let someone accuse you of things, lie about you, dig into your personal life and put you and your children in danger, post personal information online, stalk, harrass and bully you, without standing up for yourself and defend yourself?  That is what this is about....defending myself and others from the bull that has been going on for way too long.  She states she wants all the "hate" and crap to stop, but when things die down, in my opinion, she initiates it to start up again.  They say some people will do anything to make themselves the center of attention and to be important....maybe what they say is true.

Let me address the first accusation/issue that will pop up.  NO!! I did not hack into anyone's computer, email, etc, etc. I wouldn't know how to "hack" into anything if they had a million dollars cash laying next to the computer to give me if I showed them I could.  That is the truth.  No one else did either, the information that is and will be posted following this was sent to me. 

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

amazing...

Somehow my stalker has found this blog already. Funny how she says she is ONLY keeping up with her "name" and not stalking, but see, her name isn't ON this blog for it to find in her "searches". But MY name is.  She messed up on her blog today talking about the incident with her and Gayla and my ex. She's denied having anything to do with it, now she's saying... "Because Gayla wanted to know who Starla is because she was lying about her and her family doesn't make a person a stalker. Yes, I have kept up with my name and when and where it is posted. I have done what it takes to keep track of the harassment of myself. That's it!" As I stated, HER name is not mentioned here yet.
I have a lot of things going on in my life, I don't have the time just worry about her. Hopefully tonight I can find time to start posting documents to prove what I've been saying.  That's all for now, have an appt. in an hour. 

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Taking a turn in direction....

This post won't be long but I'll post more this evening.  I've received some of the things I've been waiting for and now my blog will take a turn in direction.
My stalker/harrasser is going to be exposed on this blog. I'm sick of the false allegations that are and have been coming from her for quite some time, actually over two years.  I had not said much of anything about her in quite some time until out of the blue, I got a cease and desist email from her phone.  I don't know what the problem with her is/was.  Maybe she just missed me? lol 
I've been sent some things she is blogging about, apparently Kathie Briggs and I are mentioned on her blog daily.  She is very adament about posting my full name and where I live.  Seeing as how I have received threats of harm from some of the followers on her websites, this probably isn't a good thing for her to be posting my information, wouldn't you think?  I have proof of her directing her followers to "research" me and to "bring me the dirt!"  She couldn't stand it when I was posting under an alias on a website, the only reason I changed my name to an alias is because when her and her followers found information on me, the got ahold of my ex, whom there has been a PFA (protection from abuse) order against since 2001 and which is currently STILL in affect.  My children from that marraige were added to that order in 2002 because of threats of harm/death to my children.  My stalker knew about this because I had posted my story on KP (Kelsey's Purpose) website when I first learned of Kelsey's story.  And even though she likes to label KP as a "hate group", she is also a member of KP.  Though she came there for unsavory reasons, it's all the same, she's still a "member" there.  A lot of you that will be reading this blog know the history of this.  The main reason for this blog is to expose her for her lying, not only to the general public, but to her own members.  I will post proof that she is who she says she is not, that she lied about this to her own members, that she has in FACT, stalked me, harrassed me and instigated a hate group against me.  I will post proof of her actions. Much of the proof will be copies of posts from her website plus some other documents I was sent, with her own words.  I will start on this process tonight.  There is much documentation to go through so this will be a process which I will not get done in one day or night.  She threatens and has for some time that she is going to take me and Kathie Briggs to court....let her.  I will PROVE beyond any reasonable doubt that she is a liar and has taken actions against me, that she claims I have done toward her, that I have not. And in the proof I have, there is no leadway in "interpreting" it any other way.
 It's funny because she has started a petition, but we will get into that later.  I have proof of her creating identies on other forums for the sole purpose of stalking not only me but Kathie Briggs and other "KP" members. And this is something she is petitioning against being allowed to be done. Imagine that.
Anyway, tonight will be the start of my venture to put a stop to the stalking, harrassing behavior of my stalker and the ridiculous accusations she has made against me.  Hold on, it's going to be some ride.....
I know she doesn't think I actually have what I have been trying to tell her I have, I guess now is the time to post the proof.  She's going to literally shit when finds out the proof I have, that I have tried to tell her I do have.  I am not a liar, I've told her that many times in forum. So now is the time to prove it to her I guess.  Until later.....