Thursday, April 29, 2010

Life is good!

It's amazing what happens in your life when you ignore and remove the negativity from your life!!  So many amazing things are happening in my life right now and I am very grateful for them all. 

I decided to stick with what I have tried to do for quite some time and that is ignore the ignorance and the negative things happening around me.  I just simply have too many wonderful, positive things in my life to allow that kind of crud to fester around me.  It's like a disease and a bad one at that.  Removing it from my life and ignoring the attempts at dragging me back down in the cess pool isn't and won't work any longer.  I am staying focused on what is important to me in my life and the amazing and positive things going on in my life. 

I'm going back to the things that I believe, which include that unhappy people like to surround themselves with unhappy and negative people.  They feel better about themselves when they drag others down with them to their level.  What someone thinks of me, matters not.  If you do not like me, I do not care.  You have had no bearing or importance in my life and never will.  I am not any more unhappy without your approval in and with my life.  You do not validate me as a person.  I actually feel sorry for those that think different.  Those that choose to continue to swim in the cess pool will do it without me from now on.

How things ever got to where they are at now, is crazy.  It simply bears no importance or signicance and especially in my life.  I have formed friendships and bonds with people that are amazing.  I've tried to express over and over, just because people have different opinions make them no less than I, and that that isn't what is important to me...the truth is though.  I'm blessed with some recent events in this area of my life too.  I also have formed a bond with a very special person in my life because of Kelsey and for that I will forever be grateful! 

I wish everyone, no matter your opinion happiness in your life.  I am choosing to focus on the happiness and positive from now on.  Life is good!  & God is great!

Monday, April 26, 2010

Great words...

~"Instead of giving myself reasons why I can't, I give myself reasons why I can."~


~ Unknown ~
 
What great words these are!  Always look for the positive things in your life, if you spend too much time looking back at the negative, you won't get far in life and it won't be a happy journey!

Friday, April 23, 2010

Since no one else wants to tell you this....

 I will.  You really can't re-write the facts and events of Oct. 11, 2005 to be the "story" you want it to be.  Porter WAS at work.  You take only a portion of the employees testimony that you like and fits what you want said, and leave out the part you don't want people to know.  It doesn't work that way.  It is what it is and can't be changed by you.

Humor for the day....

I finally figured out what flies and mosquitoes are for.  They're God's way of making us slap ourselves!

Hope everyone has a great day.  Stay safe with the approaching storms!

Thursday, April 22, 2010

It is inhumane and spiteful....AND shameful!

wjnorbom said...


Lovely blog Jody.


I am a believer in the power of love. It is with love, compassion and understanding that adversity is overcome. The larger the circle, the more powerful it becomes.


There is no useful purpose served in continuing a vendetta to punish someone fully immersed in grief. It is inhumane and spiteful.


Jesus again and again teaches us to follow Him by forgiving those who trespass against us. If Raye can forgive Kathie for this unending vendetta, why can't Kathie Briggs forgive Raye for thinking she was abusive? This issue really exists between the two of them.


I do know that Kelsey would not approve of this continual hatred towards her mother. She loved her mommy. Somehow I know she'd smile quite brightly if she received the justice she deserved by ultimately punishing the man that violated and killed her.


I also think she'd have a lot to say to those who use her name to hurt her mommy and to make money off of her because she died the way she did.


It is sad to continue to murder this child day after day after day after day after day... Every day. Every single day, she is murdered. Let her rest already. I am so with Sherri here. Let her rest.


And why can't you and your pal forgive Kathie and Lance for whatever it is in your heads that you are blaming them for?

I espcially like this sentence in your post  "There is no useful purpose served in continuing a vendetta to punish someone fully immersed in grief. It is inhumane and spiteful."
Yet you and Jody continue a vendetta to promote hate and punish Kathie and Lance.  If Raye Dawn can "forgive" Kathie, why can't you two? 

Raye didn't think Kathie was abusing Kelsey! Read RD's OWN WORDS in her OSBI interview when the agents asked her that question.  OR are you calling Raye a liar????  What Kathie will one day have to learn to "forgive" Raye Dawn for, is killing her granddaughter Kelsey.  And in order to have forgiveness, RD has to own up to her real responsibility in this crime, not only to herself, the public but to God himself.  He won't forgive her for that until she asks him to.  And when she admits to what she's done...killing Kelsey and trying to set up Porter for HER crime, then the final leg of justice will have come for Kelsey.

For someone who never knew Kelsey at all, you sure have a lot to say in what YOU think Kelsey would say and be happy about.

And for proclaimed a Christian you are a sorry person.  Kelsey isn't "murdered day after day after day after day...."   Kelsey is at peace in the arms of our Lord.

You continually quote Bible verses, say what Jesus says and use scripture to bash others who's opinions differ from yours. You use God's word to commit sins against others. That's NOT quite what he had in mind when he said to share his word!  If you want to be seen as a true Christian and not a hypocrite, you need to learn to PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH.  Until then you are only a hypocrite in the eyes of God and others.

Inhumane and spiteful...AND shameful!!













Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Tooting your own horn too much.....

People who toot their own horn are just very insecure and don’t get much love from anyone but themselves. People who brag about themselves are annoying because, although we all understand that being positive is a good thing, tooting your own trumpet so loudly that no one else can hear themselves think is unbecoming. We also feel annoyed when we come across a consistent bragger because most of us know that people who need to bolster their esteem at the expense of others on a regular basis are generally insecure.



Also remember that people who brag are thick skinned. This insensitivity occurs as a defense mechanism. It makes them less emotionally vulnerable, and less penetrable as a result. They are generally unaware that their bragging makes others around them annoyed, and mistakenly believe that people are impressed by their bragging.


If they have to tell you every good deed they have allegedly done in their lifetime, on a consistent, daily basis, they are looking for attention and validation as a “good person”. How sad, but still annoying.





I know who I am. I don't have to brag. I know what I’ve contributed. I know what I‘ve done. I am secure in/with myself and don’t have to garner attention and don’t care about the “atta girl” replies. Thank God, I don’t have to brag about every good deed I have done in my lifetime to feel validated as a person.



Have a great night ya’ll!

WKK accused of being "sister to KKK"...

wjnorbom said...



Thank you Jody. Please do keep on clarifying the facts because they frequently get twisted. I see this all the time. It is like re-victimizing Kelsey and the Smith family over and over.


It just doesn't end. Kelsey dies again everyday. I just saw the ever lovely storytellers on the Who Killed Kelsey Facebook page. Feels like a Mary Kay Party. What's the moniker all about WKK? Kind of like a sister to KKK? I don't like it. And "Kelsey Saturday"? They just keep using this child over and over. Someone actually comments on all the publicity photos as the authors losing the integrity and purpose of the book.


We all knew that anyway. It's never been about the TRUTH or about KELSEY.


Rest in peace dear sweet little spunk. Everyone has to answer for their behavior eventually.

Yes, dear Wendy, "Everyone has to answer for their behavior eventually."  And that includes you and your pal.  You continually flaunt the lie that Kelsey was "raped", when she was not,  you continue to say "prositute Kelsey",  asked if Lance had committed suicide in OK. yet, talked about how Kathie should become a "whale trainer", right after a whale trainer was killed by a whale she was working with, and now you put together WKK with the KKK.   YOU will have to answer for those sorry things you keep doing, along with all your lies and hate towards the Briggs family and those who support the REAL TRUTH in this case.  
And your also right, to you and those you support, it has NEVER EVER been about Kelsey OR the real truth.  It's all about lies, manipulation, promoting hate against those who are innocent in the murder of Kelsey, and making your stupid allegations and assumptions and litte inuendos such as WKK being a "sister to KKK. "   I guess you must think you are above and beyond the judgement and wrath of God.  And you are sadly mnistaken.  But that is on you and not for me to worry about.   I hope you find peace in your heart and soul someday.  You and your "hate" promoting friend.

Words of Wisdom.....

Many people try to use God for their own self-actualization, but that is a reversal of nature and is doomed to failure. You were made for God, not vice versa, and life is about letting God use you for his purposes, not your using him for your own purpose. The Bible says, "Obsession with self in these matters is a dead end; attention to God leads us out into the open, into a spacious, free life."

~Rick Warren~

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Words to live by...

Who are you to judge the way I live?
I know I'm not perfect, and I don't live to be.
But before you go pointing fingers,
Make sure your own hands are clean.

~Bob Marley~

Monday, April 19, 2010

At the end of the day....

At the end of the day, before I close my eyes...I look back, and am content with where I've been, and proud of who I am.

And that is what is important.  Not what you think of me, where I've been, what I've done or not done, not whether you agree or disagree with me, like or dislike my thoughts and opinions or what I believe. 

Sunday, April 18, 2010

wow, even rewriting what Sheri has to say....

Ok, I have to say something else here. Went to read the "comment" section from yesterday.  Below is a copy of what Sheri had to say about yesterday followed by Jody's comment to Sheri.  She had to REWRITE and CORRECT what Sheri had to say, to make it say something else.  Now do you all "get" what it is she really does?  Poor Sheri, apparently Jody doesn't think she is articulate enough or smart enough to speak in public with out being censored and corrected by her.  It's a sad day when a person can't speak their OWN mind, in their OWN words without being called out on and CORRECTED by someone on your OWN side.  simply amazing.

Sherri said...


Oh my....what a day. Yes, there are lots of stories out there already about us 'harassing' and 'causing trouble' at what I thought was going to be a community safety / child abuse prevention gathering. The only other community booth there was Exxon Mobile which my brother and several relatives work there. It was ALL about the Kelsey Briggs Foundation and the new book. It was a joke to our community I thought. My purpose was to go and check out the Exxon booth, which I did, and also to speak to Cherokee. I have spoken with her a lot during Raye's upcoming trial, about 3 years ago. I asked my questions, spoke my peace to her. We didn't hand out any flyers about Jody's book in the building. We thought it would be too much on what they were trying to do, and we respected that. Therefore, when we left and went outside, we handed out some to people as they left the building. Oh well....they didn't want us doing that, in fact, they really didn't want us on the community property at all. We were politely asked to leave the premises if we were going to hand out the flyers. We agreed to that. It's too bad that when we went in to see all that was going on that we were not welcome just because we are the maternal family of Kelsey. We were once asked why we can't help in the prevention of child abuse awareness with the Briggs.....they stared at us like we were from another planet. It was not our intentions to cause them grief today..I really thought it was a community thing..NO ONE SPOKE TO US except Debbie, Jamie and Deborah....I don't hate any of them...I just want Kelsey to REST. They just want to continue to keep her in the spotlight forever as Oklahoma's abused child. It's so sad to me that they remember her for Mike Porter's terrible act of murder...Anyway, it was a very hard day to be there, but for Kelsey's sake and Raye's, I felt I needed to say what I needed to say to Cherokee. I know she knows the real truth..



April 17, 2010 11:24 PM

Jody said...

Sherri, They are going to twist the way you stated we were asked to leave if we were handing out flyers. We were already outside. We got the book and you talked to Cherokee and then we went outside on our own and then the man in the Kelsey Briggs foundation t-shirt came and talked to us. We weren't asked to leave the building. We were already outside, and he stated that as long as we weren't passing out flyers inside the building, which we didn't, that we were welcome to stay and enjoy the day. I just want to clarify that because I have it all recorded and they will say that we were kicked out when we weren't. Yes, we were stared at and and talked about and glared at by Britten's family members but nobody approached us in a negative manner.

April 18, 2010 9:00 AM
 
 
To "Anonymous"....those people won't BE at her book signing.  And of course they were "polite"...why wouldn't they be?  That's just the way KP members are.
Now here is Jody's next comment...
 
Jody said...


That's why I wanted to go yesterday. I don't want to be afraid of them. Maybe it was all of the police officers that made them act nice. I don't know. I will be prepared at my book signings, just in case. I don't think any of them want to tangle with my husband.



April 18, 2010 10:06 AM
 
Jody, you don't have anything to "be afraid of" with any of them/us.  IF the things you allege actually happened, they were NOT done by "KP" members.  All the police officers were there because there were anticipated problems, not to make any of those you speak of "act nice" lol  Your threat about your husband is comical.  No one is afraid of your husband!!! Please! lol And they have NO REASON TO BE!  KP members would never show up at an event they do not support and create a public spectacle of themselves as was done at that event.  That is NOT what we do/way we act. 
I do have to say I find it interesting that you are trying to interject yourself into every media event surrounding the WWK book, trying to garner some media time and attention for you/ your own book.  Sorry that isn't working out so well for ya.  But keep it up, it does show the public what kind of person you really are.  I don't think it's getting any "positive" attention for you or your book, but hey...that's on you, and just my opinion!  Have a great day dear.

Some things never change! lol

So now the person who "edited" the book for Key and did a very poor job of it, is now giving her own versions of the truth that is in the WKK? book.  I find that hilarious.  I won't be reading any more of it.  The lies have started all ready and I'm not going to read the lies.  I don't care to know how she wants the truth/story to read.  It's not her book.  Her story is lies.  She already states HER version as fact.

 She states: "It's been proven that most of the injuries from the autopsy was from whatever Mike Porter did to her tiny body in those last moments and from people trying to save her life. So the statement about her bruises is an inaccurate statement that is made to create a picture in the reader's mind that is not based on truth. "

LOL What a lie already. That has NOT been "proven", and it's certainly NOT been proven other than in her own tall tales that "Mike Porter" did anything to her.

She also states:  "Also, they call Kelsey's injury a "blow." Nobody knows for sure if it was a blow. Many think that Mike Porter raped Kelsey while he had her bent over the bar. A bar being pushed into a child's abdomen during the act of anal rape (which tore Kelsey's anus all the way to her vaginal wall) would not be termed as a "blow."

Many think? The truth is, MOST people, INCLUDING MOST of Raye Dawn's OWN family, that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey. THAT is the cold hard fact.  Her account of events is just that..HER account, she wasn't there. NO ONE in a professional capacity in this case has ever said they think what has been said in that paragraph is true.  It's Jody's words and no one else's.  Again, she tries to rewrite the truth and facts to what SHE wants them to say. 

It's apparent she'll be tearing the book apart bit by bit, adding her own lies and madeup twisted "facts" to it.  As for the spelling errors, lol  I'm really surprised after her sorry editing in the book of Key's that she is harping on that.  I have spelling errors even in a book by Stephen King, so....??? Big deal?  Nope.  All she is doing is setting herself up so when people critisize the book she supposedly has coming out, she can say this is why. 

Anyway, I'm glad she finally has something to fullfill her days, make herself feel important and has something she considers "creative" to do with herself.  I won't be reading them, as I don't care to read all her little self made "twists" and lies to this case.  That is REAL disrespect to Kelsey.  Of course, it's never been ABOUT Kelsey with her.  I hope she keeps herself busy and if nothing else, all these twists and lies and madeup facts at least give her a chance to practice her creative writing skills, which in my opinion she definately needs.  Maybe she can pick up a few pointers from these fine authors.

That being said, I am on to bigger and better things, as this should keep her mind busy for some time.  One of her supporters told me she was waiting on this book to finish hers, so she should have plenty to keep herself busy with.  There's really no need in me reading it anyway, I know it's all lies and there's nothing I can do about it anyway.  Besides, there's plenty of attorney's reading the site at this point. Because of recent events and the release of the WWK? book, there are now another couple attorney's reading it as well.  They will take care of what needs taken care of in the end.

I will say that a writer I talked to told me a couple weeks ago, said some things that really made me think.  They said NO authentic writer would sit and pick apart and rewrite or change another authors book, esp. in a public venue.  If she really stooped to that, there was nothing to worry about, she would never make it as an author.  A person that did that would get no further than they are and had no one to blame but themselves.  Thinking about that I realized how true that is.  And putting it on a public forum where it can be copied and shared isn't a very smart thing to do.  But old habits are hard to break I suppose.  Anyway enough of the dreary stuff.

I hope everyone is having  a great weekend, despite the rain!  Hugs to you all.    Wonder if they will be able to run the race today?  GO JR!!!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

Say what you want, plenty of witnesses that saw police escort you from the building after you were told to not pass your flyers out inside the building.  I believe there are pics too.

If nothing happened you wouldn't have set yourself up to "explain" (make excuses) BEFORE anything was posted on what happened. 

Wow!

The Child Abuse Prevention and Family Safety Day event  was a success and a good time for everyone!  Well, almost for everyone.


Seems Jody and Sheri showed up.  They were trying to hand out flyers promoting Jody's book.  I guess they didn't realize the event they were attending was for awareness and prevention of Child Abuse...or maybe the did but didn't care.  They approached the authors table where the "Who Killed Kelsey?" book was being sold, started asking a bunch of questions of Cherokee and Britten, and once again stating that the book contained lies, one Sheri brought up being that the book states that Porter was holding Kelsey when the EMT's arrived at the scene the day Kelsey died, and that was a lie.  One of the authors corrected her and told her that the book does NOT state that, that it states Porter had Kelsey and handed her over to Gayla.  Her reply was "oh."  The author then preceded to ask Sheri if she'd read the book and Sheri stated she had not, but people were calling her and telling her about it.   According to Jody's recent blog entry, she bought one, so now I'm sure Sheri will be able to read the truth for herself, and not have to depend on what she is "told" but once again, the REAL TRUTH.

Seems they went to this event to stir up trouble, and that is exactly what they got.  Jody approached a radio station that was broadcasting live at the event and told them that she was told by the Kelsey Foundation that she could do an interview....the person she told this to stated, "I don't think so!" 

While they were hovering around the authors of the book "Who Killed Kelsey?"  causing a disturbance, the City of Shawnee officials, called Security and Jody and Sheri were escorted OUT of the building by 4 uniformed police officers.  Officers in plain clothes were watching them already.  Private security had been secured for the event for Kathie's protection and her family.

There were uniformed officers standing in front of the bleachers where Kathie was sitting and private security officers sitting nearby.

The building was packed, probably 2-300 people in the building that witnessed this taking place, with approx. 40 people standing right there within hearing distance.

How embarrassing for them.  There were several organizations there on Preventing Child Abuse, this wasn't just a Kelsey event.  It wasn't anyone from Kelsey's Foundation, but the City of Shawnee officials that called for security and had the Shawnee Police involved.

Jody and Sheri were informed by the Shawnee police officers they were banned from the building.  So, they stood outside in the rain handing out flyers on the so called "book" Jody is writing.

While this is all very interesting, it also proves a very important point.  One that she will have a hard time defending in court.  She has went on and on for years about how "scared" she is of Kathie and "KP members".  How scared is she really?  She attends an event where she knows Kathie is,  and the very "KP" members that she is so scared of?? That she boldly without any justification OR proof, says has shot at her truck, broke into her home (although interestingly enough, nothing stolen? or damaged.) the same organization that she has promoted hate against all over the internet, even calling an abuse hotline making these same insane accusations... the very one's attending this event that she says has threatened her and is stalking her?...but she comes to where all these people who she claims have done such horrific things to her that she is so deathly afraid of that she had to "move" and acquired "guard dogs" and a "gun" to protect herself from....and she hands out flyers with her name and PICTURE on them?   AGAIN, I pose the question to you, How scared is she really?  This stunt proves she isn't as scared as she has claimed all these years and continues to claim.  What? Now because she passed out flyers with her name and picture on them, she will start claiming that other things are being done to her?  Not hardly. 

As for Sheri...why is she all of a sudden coming out and starting all this trouble?  Is she out for attention because of  her pals book?  WHERE was she before in all this?  4 years later, now she makes her presence known?  Where was she when Kelsey was deteriorating?  She worked at the very office Gayla did and saw Kelsey all the time those last months of her life.  Why didn't  she make her presence and concern known then and step out and speak up for Kelsey and do something to save her???  Not only pathetic but sad for Kelsey.

How do the two of them think they made themselves AND the Smiths look today??  Way to make Raye Dawn proud guys!   Way to stand up for awareness and preventing child abuse!!  Jody has begged for media attention on her blog for months to no avail.  So she not only tries to ride the skirt tail of little Kelsey and her story by trying to make a name for herself in writing a book but now tries to ride the skirt tails of the book on the true story of Kelsey's life and death to get media attention and promote her own book.  Do you really want to talk about and accuse of "exploiting Kelsey"??

Do they think their actions and public display today is going to sell that book? Garner any support and make people believe that SHE is the one being stalked and harrassed, when today PROVED the opposite?  I don't think so.  When her book flops as it will, she can look back on today and put the blame where it rightfully belongs...in her own lap.  And they really aren't helping Raye Dawn either.

It IS kind of sad to see her so desperate for attention...so desperate to make a name for herself and be important, her attempts always fail.  Someone should tell her she doesn't need all that to validate herself as a person.

So now because of the public display today and the continued stalking and harrassing concerning this case, the authors will have private security at all media events surrounding this book.  And there are many, many many coming.

One more thing and i'm done for today.  Sheri stated to the authors that her family is tired of seeing Kelsey's face on everything to do with child abuse.  I have to say Sheri, I might feel the same way if one of my family members abused and killed their own child.  It wouldn't feel very good I don't suppose to have that constant reminder of my family.  If it wasn't Kelsey's face as the poster child for abuse...it would be another child's.  As is very evident not only in the past, but especially today...YOU may not give a damn about awareness and preventing child abuse like Kelsey suffered and to help any way possible to stop it...but Kelsey does...and she IS.  And I know Kelsey would be proud to be the reason another child's life is spared...proud to be the reason children are getting extra hugs and kisses from their parents...proud to be the reason people are now reporting suspicions of children being abused...PROUD to be the face that makes people STOP before they hit their child...and PROUD to be the one to bring awareness and prevention of child abuse, not only in Oklahoma, not only in the US, but AROUND THE WORLD!  once again...it's about KELSEY...not you.
Everyone knew things would get worse once the truth in the book came out.  It was expected.  Those that deny and fight the truth often become more vicious, as has happened in this case. 

Calls from the Smith family and supporter have been made to media, following interviews from the authors of the book "Who Killed Kelsey?"  They state things in the book are lies, tell their side of it, then when the media people follow up and check the facts, it's not the book that has told the lie(s), it's the people making the calls.


The book has definately caused quite a stir.  The way Gayla and Sheri are acting- maybe people after reading the book are coming to the conclusion that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey.  I know several people whom i've talked with that have read it, that's the conclusion they have come to.  They just can't stand it when Kelsey and/or the Briggs get any kind of attention or media time and the Smiths don't.  Their jealousy of the Briggs family is very evident. 

They have alot to be jealous of too.  Unlike the Smith family, the Briggs family are a VERY close family.  Unlike the majority of the Smith family, the Briggs family are very supportive of each other.  Kathie looks after and loves to watch her grandchildren any time she gets a chance.  I remember being told by a Smith family friend that one time when it was mentioned who Kelsey was being left with, Gayla made the statement to this person that she "didn't care who was watching her as long as it wasn't her."  I wonder if she remembers when she said that...I wonder if she even cares.  Personally, sadly I don't think she does.  There is such a difference when you look at pictures of Kathie with Kelsey than the pictures of Gayla and Kelsey.  You can see the love in Kathie's eyes, her interatcions with Kelsey in the videos...just as it should be full of love and care, pride and joy! 

I've never heard Kathie lose her patience with any of her granchildren, and no one has ever said they have noticed that with her either.  But the stories told of how Gayla acted and reacted with Kelsey are heartwrenching.  I would like to think that her memories of how she treated that precious child haunt her and fill her with regret.  Kathie is an awesome grandma.  Her grandchildren are very lucky to have her in their lives. 

There's been so much chaos and drama surrounding this case....even now...over 4 years later.  Why?  What and/or who is causing it?  Those that support RD and the person who "leads" that support, all say Mike Porter killed Kelsey, that RD not only didn't kill her, but didn't even know she was being abused.  Amazing.  She's been exonerated by the group of any responsibility whatsoever in not only Kelsey's death, but in her safety and well being in general.  I know they hold tight that RD's appeal will come back in her favor.  It's not going to.  Those judges are not that stupid.  The evidence is clear.  When you take out all the personal opinions, the personal interpretations and just look at the cold hard facts...it's evident who is responsible.  And that's the way the Judges will see it....evidence and facts only.  Not someone's made up "this is the way I want it to have happened" version, or that persons opinions and personal interpretations mixed in.  THANK GOD for that.  The ridiculous accusations in the appeal will be seen for what they are.

What I don't get is IF they REALLY think that Porter did it, WHY is all their efforts and focus on trashing the Briggs family members and trying to make them look guilty of anything and everything they can find to use?  Why isn't their vigorous efforts and vengeful HATE focused on the one they think is guilty?  The ONLY two possiblities is Raye Dawn Smith or Mike Porter, killed Kelsey.  It is impossible that any of the Briggs had anything to do with it.  Yet some sick, evil people have said Kathie is to blame for Kelsey's death.  Not only is that ridiculous, it is just plain outright mean and cruel.  I mean gosh, none of the Briggs were even allowed to see Kelsey the last few months of her life, so if they want to blame someone other than Porter or Smith, why not blame those that saw Kelsey those last months?  Sheri and Gayla certainly saw her.  They saw that baby's condition and how she was deteriorating.  Gayla testified in court, "we was starting to watch him" meaning Porter.  As hateful, spiteful and evil minded as she is, I really believe that IF she REALLY tho't that Porter was responsible for the bruising and the things happening to Kelsey...she would have called the police and turned him in.  I think she knew it was Raye Dawn and just did nothing.  She probably didn't think it would come to the point that Kelsey would die.  And it didn't seem to phase her much when she got the call that fateful afternoon from her daughter telling her what she'd done.  That's what I think happened.  I think RD called Gayla after fatally injuring Kelsey, Gayla left work and went to help RD stage the scene to set up Porter.

We all see where all the hate comes from, who starts it, who keeps it stirred up and who can't stand it if they aren't in the middle of all the attention.  Jody at first denied that her book was about "Kelsey's case", now she says it will blow the case wide open...I have to laugh at that, she couldn't blow anything wide open because she's not trusted enough to be privy with certain information as is evident by some emails I saw.  Maybe that is why she fabricates so much "stuff", because she isn't fed enough.  She states that SHE is a public figure in this case....lol  I was happy to make sure the attorney's got those pages copied for sure. 

I feel sorry for Jody to a point.  It's obvious she has been used just as she uses others and she probably deserves that for all her lying and manipulation, but what drives her to keep all the hate stirred up and focused on the Briggs and a couple of people who support Kelsey and the Briggs?  What causes her to spend sooo much time promoting the hate towards the Briggs?  The Briggs have done nothing to her, real or imagined.  Her pathetic attempts at accusing "KP" members of everything bad in her life, real and imagined is pathetic.  Anyway, I do feel sorry for her that her life is so unhappy and unfullfilled that she has to rely on her lies and manipulations on the internet about innocent people to make her feel a little bit important.  I am worried about her mental status.  If the Briggs do sue for all her crap, I hope the team of attorney's ask for a subpeona for her medical and psychiatric records.  The blog alone should be enough to secure a subpeona.  I believe she is fully capable of harming the Briggs family, especially Kathie.  Her jealousy or whatever it is of Kathie, is quite alarming. 

As always the things written in my blog are my thoughts, feelings and opinions to which i'm entitled, unless otherwise stated as fact.  Sometimes I wish that I was evil enough to just come on here and start making up crap and state it as fact, but I just can't lower myself to her level, that isn't me.  And I really do thank God, I don't have the capability to be like her, it has to be a confusing, lonely and pathetic existence.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Shame on you once again WENDY!

wjnorbom said...


This is hilarious! Almost as good as the comedy club! I mean gooder and gooder!



April 14, 2010 11:16 PM
 
 
Bet this is just as "hilarious" to you as when you asked not long ago if Lance had "committed suicide in Oklahoma yet?" huh?
Making fun of a poster on Topix posting as "Seekingpeace" who has claimed to have a head injury!  Do you really think this kind of shit is funny Wendy?  Yeah I believe you really do.  How Christian-like of you once again.  Ya'll really need to quit praying for everyone else and spend that time seeking forgiveness for yourselves.  Seriously.
Why is it you NEVER post anything unless you are trashing someone, or making fun of someone?  And you call yourself an "intelligent woman"?? Really.  I would post the definition of "intelligent" for you, but I don't know anymore if you comprehend things well.  Not unless it is making fun of people.  Of course your "idol" already made fun before you....two peas in a pod for sure.  The old saying when you lie with dogs you get up with fleas certainly comes to mind in this situation.  Once again thoroughly DISGUSTED by you, but then what is new?  What should I expect from someone who excitedly asks if someone has committed suicide yet or jokes around about how a grieving grandmother should become a "whale trainer", days after a whale trainer is KILLED by a whale she worked with.  You're "hilarious" alright Wendy.  But I seriously doubt God is laughing with you on these things.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Teri Sigman

The book "Who Killed Kelsey", has caused quite the stir already.  Amazing how fast people turn their backs on others.  I have a few things to say about Teri Sigman's posts on Topix. 

This is a quote from a conversation going on before the book came out from Teri.  "As I've said before.....everyone is entitled to their own opinion as far as Ashleys' reason's for leaving......I honestly don't care who thinks that...because i KNOW the reason....as I've stated before......there IS a side that people do NOT want told. Ashley, jay & I have chose to NOT add more drama and hate. that is not the type of people that we are."  You'll see my reasoning for posting this by the end of the post.

Actually, I think I will just address this directly to Teri. 
 Teri, one of the first things I notice in your postings on Topix, both before and since the book has been released, is that you are mad about Jay, you and Ashley not being contacted for an interview for the book.  Yet Ashley WAS contacted by one of these same reporters in the past to do an interview for the news on the case and they were told that Ashley had "moved on" and would NOT give interviews.  So, why would they contact her again?  Besides that, this book was written from the perspective of the Briggs family, and you nor your family are in the Briggs family anymore. 

You have harshly judged the book without reading it for yourself.  Maybe you should read it and read all the nice things that WERE said about your daughter.  Lance was actually more candid about his own shortcomings than anyone else's.

Before I respond to anymore of your remarks, I do want to bring up another observation of mine.   The beginning of all your anger seems to have started since the Kelsey Run, when you were told that the Kelsey Briggs Foundation was taking over the run.  You WERE offered to continue doing the same thing with the Run, that you had been doing.  The only difference in it was that the money raised would be going to the Kelsey Briggs Foundation instead of PCAO.  You got mad and chose not to continue in the same capacity that you were operating in with the Run.  I'm the one that deleted your comments from KP when you posted after coming home that day.  Your anger and feelings were quite clear in those posts.

I'm not sure why you are making such accusations as you are, such as the Briggs are making this all about them and how they've done nothing for child abuse and it's "all about the money".  You seem to forget that Lance didn't just sue for "money", but also for DHS reform, and what about the positive changes to Title 10 because of Kelsey and the Briggs??  What about the money raised for PCAO because of Kelsey and the Briggs?  And what about the Kelsey Briggs Foundation?? The run is actually already grown, it is now a marathon.  Money will be raised for a scholarship in Kelsey's name.  I don't think it's been decided yet if it will go to an abused child or someone going into a field to help abused children.  But yet the Briggs haven't done anything to help abused kids?  Oh, and let's not forget Kelsey's Law that is on the books because of Kelsey and the Briggs

The last 4 years you defended Lance and the Briggs, if they were such horrible people as you are now making them out to be, why did you lie all those years?  Fact is, you either lied under oath, in interviews to the media, and for the last 4 years defending them, or you are lying now, it is one or the other, so which is it?  You told things one way then when you got mad over the run and upset over not being interviewed for the book and what was said about Ashley in the book, and now you change your story and they are all totally opposite.

You seemed to be concerned as is evident in several of your posts on Topix, about there being another "blog" where people are discussing this...if you are looking for "blogs" and websites that you can now continue your trashing the Briggs, there is FKM, TTAK, Jody's Blog, they also have several facebook pages, that you can join and chime in.  You will surely receive plenty of attention and "atta girl" with them there.  Of course you seem to not care now that "truthseeker" and her groupies outright accused Jay of sexually molesting Kelsey and now don't care about all the trashing they did of Ashley?  Maybe you'd like to see an email that Gayla wrote about what she really thinks of you and your daughter? Imagine that one.  I'll try to remember to look for it and post it.  And it IS a screen shot of the email, so it can't be changed.

Defending your child is admirable and no one holds that against you and totally expects you to do so, that is what a good mother does.  But that doesn't mean that I or others are not allowed an opinion on how we feel about what she did.  Kathie has asked everyone for the last 4 years to not talk about you or Ashley.  Kathie has always said "Teri is off limits, she is Kelsey's other grandma". 


Your implications of "why" Ashley left Lance appear to be that he was mean and/or abused Ashley.  If that is true, and all the other bad things you are actually saying, then what exactly are you saying?  That you lied under oath when you testified different?  That you lied in your interviews for the media?  And if that IS what you are saying, then go ahead and post it...your "truth".  Then I will post the truth from Ashley herself, in an email from Ashley from AFTER her and Lance were divorced where she was asked if Lance had been abusive and/or mean to her and she said she was answering that question for the LAST time, that he had NEVER been abusive towards her in any way! 

If it has been all about Kelsey with you, I have a question for you.  What happened this year that you didn't list Kelsey as your grandchild in the paper for Valentines Day, when you have done that EVERY year since it was confirmed that Kelsey was Lance's child?  This year you left her out.  Why?  Of course this was once again after you got your feelings hurt and got mad over the run.

And I have NEVER said that Ashley wasn't good to Kelsey when she cared for her.  She was excellent with her, when she wanted to be... but when she was done....she was done!

Another question...IF Lance was sooo bad to Ashley, why did she show up at the airport when he came back when Kesley died?  She wasn't even invited, but she showed up.  Why would she do that if she just had to get out of the marraige so fast that she couldn't even stay for Kelsey's sake long enough for Lance to come home?  Just doesn't make a lot of sense.

One of your main complaints that you keep bringing up is how no one contacted you to interview you for the book.  You have known for 3 1/2 years that book was coming...you knew who was writing it...if it was that important for you to have your say in the book, you knew who to contact, why didn't you?  Maybe it's just easier to be the "victim" afterwards.

Again your words..."Ashley, jay & I have chose to NOT add more drama and hate. that is not the type of people that we are."  To that all I have to say is after all the nasty, hateful things you have recently posted on Topix after getting your feelings hurt over the book is....In my opinion you have truely shown the "type of people that" you are.  Was your "love for Kelsey" lost when you were talking trash on her daddy and her family on Topix?  I wonder.

Friday, April 9, 2010

Britten

After getting my chuckle for the day...(comedy is good for the soul ya know), I have to wonder if the person talking out their butt again, even really knows who Britten is?


To answer the question, yes the book was "self published".  Britten IS IN the publishing business, comes from a long line of family in the publishing business.  She knows exactly what she is doing.    Would seem like a big waste of money to those with a brain....or even half a one.  Maybe people would look less ignorant/stupid if they would do a little research before they run at the mouth about things they obviously know NOTHING about!! LOL

Friday, April 2, 2010

Dedication.....

I just love Mariah Carey...I changed some words for my dedication to the woman who's life is obsessed....



Sweetie, here is my dedication to you......

OBSESSED



“I was like, why you so obsessed with me?”




So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

Will the real MC please step to the mic?

MC - You need an MC, place to be.

MC the MC.





All up in the blogs, sayin’ we fight about Kelsey’s case,

When I don’t even, know who you are.

Sayin’ we up in your place, sayin’ I’m up in your face.

But you in OKC, and I’m out on the Island.

I’m up on the truth, you’re so lame,

And no one here, even mentions your name.

It must be the mind, it must be the case,

Cause you be poppin’ a seam, you pop your top





Ahhh Ohhh.

Why you so obsessed with me?

Girl I want to know, lyin’ that you’re not stalking me

When everybody knows, it’s clear that you’re upset with me.

Ohh, finally found a person that you couldn’t run off,

Stop from telling the truth, you still don’t get it.



You’re delusional, you’re delusional,

Woman you’re losing your mind.

It’s confusing you, you’re confused you know,

Why you wasting your time?

Got you all fired up, with your ‘poor me’ complex,

They’re seein’ right through you like you’re bathin’ in Windex.





Ooh Ohh Ohh.

Woman why you so obsessed with me?

So, oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

And all the truthful people sing,

So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

All the truthful people sing.

(obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed.)





You on your “job”, you hatin’ hard,

Ain’t goin ’feed you, I’mma let you starve.

Graspin’ for air, and I’m ventilation

You out of breath, hope you ain’t waitin’.

Tellin’ the world how you’re the “victim”,

But you’re far from that, so why you trippin’?

You a mom and pop, I’m a corporation,

I’m the press conference, you’re a sad conversation.





Ahhh Ohhh.

Why you so obsessed with me?

And woman I wanna know, lyin’ that you’re not stalking me,

When everybody knows, it’s clear that you’re upset with me.

Ohh, finally found a person that you couldn’t run off,

Stop from telling the truth, you still don’t get it.







You’re delusional, you’re delusional,

Woman you’re losing your mind. (Mind)

It’s confusing you, you’re lies are confusin you

Why you wasting your time? (Mind)

Got you all fired up, with your “victim” complex,

Seein’ right through you like you’re bathin’ in Windex.





Ooh Ohh Ohh.

Woman why you so obsessed with me?

So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

And all the truthful people sing,

So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

All the truthful people sing.

(Obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed!)





Ahhh Ohhh.

Why you so obsessed with me? ( She’s all caught up in her lies)

And girl I want to know, lyin’ that you’re not stalking me. (Lying that you’re not stalking me.)

When everybody knows, it’s clear that you’re upset with me. (For telling’ the truth)

Ohh, finally found a person that you couldn’t run off, (Ohh)

Stop from telling the truth, you still don’t get it.. (Just tell the truth, you still don’t get it)

(Fade out)

You’re delusional, you’re delusional, (She’s all caught up in her lies).

Woman you’re losing your mind. (Mind)

It’s confusing you, you’re lies are confusin you,

Why you wasting your time? (Mind)

Got you all fired up, with your “victim” complex,

They're seein' right through you like you’re bathin’ in Windex….





OBSESSED!


And now, have a great life.  I have too many wonderful and positive things in my life to let your lies and negativity bring me down to YOUR level any longer.  I truely hope you find peace within yourself someday and that God has mercy on your soul for all the hate you have promoted and lies you have told.  Good luck on that one.  Most of us rarely think of you anymore until we are notified of more of your crap.  You're not feeding off me any longer, I refuse to play your sick, twisted game.  You feed off attention, any kind of attention, including bad....find another food source, this one is done.  I really do wish you the best and hope if the professional you are seeing can't help you stop chasing your phantom demons, you will find one who CAN help you.  I seriously think you are delusional enough to be dangerous to others, and that is my opinion of which I am still entitled to.  I really do wish you the best....and that you finally learn truth from fiction.  Adios