The day before yesterday I was made aware of a balloon release for DV victims at our local courthouse. I had a message from a child advocate that had helped me and my children in our DV case, asking me to contact the local DV advocate as she was wanting me to speak at the balloon release. As I didn't get the message until the night before, I declined because I didn't have much time to prepare anything. After attending yesterday, I'm sorry now I didn't speak.
First of all, I have to question several things. One being why would a DV organization wait until the END of the month of awareness for DV to have this? Second, why wasn't the director of the program in attendance? And why weren't they more prepared? And why were there no flyers or anything around town to let people know about this? I suppose something is better than nothing, but come on. You would think you would want to bring attention to this at the beginning of the month for one thing. You would think you would get the word out so more people could attend and you would think you would be prepared.
The advocate started out by saying that this was a balloon release for Domestic Violence and that there were 79 balloons for the 79 DV victims, including children in the state of Oklahoma the past year. She then stated she was going to read a poem she found on the internet, which she read. They passed out the balloons while a song played and the balloons were released. Then they ate BBQ sandwiches. That was it. No statistics, no nothing else. Most of the people in attendance worked at the courthouse. ONE of the Judges, who is always at anything to do with DV, the Sheriff, several officers and women from the courthouse. Very few people outside of those from the courthouse. A great opportunity to get the attention of a Judge and law enforcement that deal with DV on a daily basis just slipped by. I suppose something is better than nothing, but come on.
I am really aggravated that the Director of the DV program couldn't take 15 min. out of her Friday to make an appearance. She's got to be the sorriest "director" of such a program I've ever seen. Yes, that's my opinion based on many years experience with this woman. I as well as several others were completely appalled at a public meeting where she outright blamed a victim for being killed. I'll save that for maybe another day as that story is very hard for me.
A few days ago, I found out this same director is also the head of some new program to find alternatives to jail time for offenders....WHAT??? This is what advocates for abuse victims have fought long and hard for!!! And now the director of a program that is supposed to be standing up for and fighting for VICTIMS OF ABUSE is trying to find ways to keep them OUT of jail??? Are you kidding me?? Needless to say I will be making some phone calls to those that she receives her funding from and a few others this coming week. I'm just stunned and several in our community are outraged at this.
If you or someone you know is being abused, please call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) Numbers for the National Domestic Violence Hotline...Anonymous & confidential help. http://www.thehotline.org/
NCADV (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence) http://www.ncadv.org/
For Sarah Smith age 26 & her children Skyler Price age 4 and Joshua DeForest age 2....I've not forgotten you and never will. May you all rest in peace. No more pain sweet ones....I love you all.
Here is a youtube video I just watched... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMH0bmPx6xw So sad and tragic & happens all the time.
Saturday, October 30, 2010
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
New week...it is what it is
A new week! yay! Countdown is on until we get the final results from the Appeals Court on Raye Dawn's appeal. I can't wait! The nightmare will be over for the most part. Everyone will be able to go on with their lives and forget about her and she can finally settle in and get used to her new home without people giving her such false hope. She's guilty at the VERY least of what she was convicted and right exactly where she belongs. After the recent hearing it's pretty safe to say, she's not going anywhere for a very long time. Justice for Kelsey as much as can be in this case when you are dealing with two liars, will have been served.
Personally I wish there was a hearing to give the good news.
I'd love to see the look on her face when she's told she's NOT getting out. I think she knows that though, how could she not? Not one hearing in a court of law on anything to do with this case has went her way...not one. I don't hold any hope on those who are staunch in their belief that she is "innocent'' will ever come to realize they are wrong. Many have been misled from the very start, facts and information in this case twisted into something it's not in order to gather followers and supporters by one person. Sad when people think someone has "inside" information and all it is, is the ''opinion'' of that person, or something simply made up. When you stand for the truth, there is no need to lie or twist or make things up. It is what it is.
A couple of behind the scenes things that will be coming down the pike, which are good and positive things. The new book that is being worked on and I can't wait until it's ready. Good things come to those who wait, as we have all found out with this whole trial mess.
A few have a road trip coming up, to meet a Kelsey supporter. That will be fun and a good stress reliever taking a trip with some awesome women! You never know what you might learn on such a trip! lol
We got some MUCH needed rain and am loving the cooler weather...for now lol 70's & 80's the rest of the week! Gotta love October in Oklahoma!
Guess that's about all for now....I have some more news but will be contacting some of you individually about that. If you don't hear from me in the next couple days, please contact me. I get easily sidetracked when so much is going on! Take care all and have a wonderul week! Blessings to all~
Personally I wish there was a hearing to give the good news.
I'd love to see the look on her face when she's told she's NOT getting out. I think she knows that though, how could she not? Not one hearing in a court of law on anything to do with this case has went her way...not one. I don't hold any hope on those who are staunch in their belief that she is "innocent'' will ever come to realize they are wrong. Many have been misled from the very start, facts and information in this case twisted into something it's not in order to gather followers and supporters by one person. Sad when people think someone has "inside" information and all it is, is the ''opinion'' of that person, or something simply made up. When you stand for the truth, there is no need to lie or twist or make things up. It is what it is.
A couple of behind the scenes things that will be coming down the pike, which are good and positive things. The new book that is being worked on and I can't wait until it's ready. Good things come to those who wait, as we have all found out with this whole trial mess.
A few have a road trip coming up, to meet a Kelsey supporter. That will be fun and a good stress reliever taking a trip with some awesome women! You never know what you might learn on such a trip! lol
We got some MUCH needed rain and am loving the cooler weather...for now lol 70's & 80's the rest of the week! Gotta love October in Oklahoma!
Guess that's about all for now....I have some more news but will be contacting some of you individually about that. If you don't hear from me in the next couple days, please contact me. I get easily sidetracked when so much is going on! Take care all and have a wonderul week! Blessings to all~
Friday, October 15, 2010
Exciting news!
I was given permission last night to post about this exciting news!
An insider to the Smith family for over 30 years has been writing a book. This book will give inside information as to what life was like in that family before Kelsey, during the time Kelsey was alive...which includes the time of the abuse and after.
I've read the rough draft of what's been written. Very well written and VERY informative. This book will address rumors and truths alike that have been going around for the past few years.
It includes short interviews and/or quotes from others that have inside information as to what transpired through the years. The readers will be shocked. Some of the contributors to the content have stated that they wish they would have came forward when Kelsey was alive. Don't we all. Although too late for Kelsey, I think the book is good and needed information. Maybe it will help someone who reads it to see that they need to speak out about a situation they are aware of....before it's too late.
The book will most likely be self published, but I do know that a family member of a major top publishing company in the world is waiting for the finished product. We'll see what happens.
I will keep my readers informed of the progress. No release date is set as of now. This has been an emotional rollercoaster for the author of this book. I don't know how she's done it. What I have read has broken my heart...again.
Keep the author of the book in your prayers, that she has the strength and courage to get through these memories and facts. Thank you.
An insider to the Smith family for over 30 years has been writing a book. This book will give inside information as to what life was like in that family before Kelsey, during the time Kelsey was alive...which includes the time of the abuse and after.
I've read the rough draft of what's been written. Very well written and VERY informative. This book will address rumors and truths alike that have been going around for the past few years.
It includes short interviews and/or quotes from others that have inside information as to what transpired through the years. The readers will be shocked. Some of the contributors to the content have stated that they wish they would have came forward when Kelsey was alive. Don't we all. Although too late for Kelsey, I think the book is good and needed information. Maybe it will help someone who reads it to see that they need to speak out about a situation they are aware of....before it's too late.
The book will most likely be self published, but I do know that a family member of a major top publishing company in the world is waiting for the finished product. We'll see what happens.
I will keep my readers informed of the progress. No release date is set as of now. This has been an emotional rollercoaster for the author of this book. I don't know how she's done it. What I have read has broken my heart...again.
Keep the author of the book in your prayers, that she has the strength and courage to get through these memories and facts. Thank you.
Monday, October 11, 2010
~Remembering Kelsey~
Remembering a sweet, innocent child who lost her life needlessly from the failures of many...from her mother to the Judge that put her back into the home she was being abused in, to be murdered 5 years ago today.
I hope Key is remembering the child he sent home to be murdered. I hope her "mother" has a horrible day tomorrow. I hope the grandmother that was around Kelsey and saw her deteriorating, thinks about what she did wrong and what she could have and should have done to save her grandchild. This little girl should have and COULD have been saved.
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Briggs family during this most difficult time. I hope one day they are allowed the peace to heal from this tragedy. God be with them and bless them. RIP Kelsey and know you are loved and missed immensely.
I hope Key is remembering the child he sent home to be murdered. I hope her "mother" has a horrible day tomorrow. I hope the grandmother that was around Kelsey and saw her deteriorating, thinks about what she did wrong and what she could have and should have done to save her grandchild. This little girl should have and COULD have been saved.
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Briggs family during this most difficult time. I hope one day they are allowed the peace to heal from this tragedy. God be with them and bless them. RIP Kelsey and know you are loved and missed immensely.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
Are these people serious??
" Will ANY court ever admit error on their part???? EVER???????
Yesterday at 7:34pm ·
More lies....
This was recently posted on the FB page for RD, and is full of lies.
" He told Kathie whatever she wanted to hear. She promised Porter a plea deal if he helped her. She then went to the DA (who'd been on the Smith's side before this) and threatened him if he didn't charge Raye with something that would stick. After Raye was charged, Porter got a plea deal, dropping the murder and sexual assault charges and pleading guilty to Enabling Child Abuse. The Briggs justify their excuse for asking the DA for a deal with Porter as them not being able to sit through a murder trial. Yet they were able to sit through Raye's trial. Unreal."
They are talking about Porter and Kathie. I didn't copy the whole post. Kathie did NOT PROMISE Porter a plea deal, NOR did any of the Briggs ASK for a plea deal for Porter. See?? Simple lies like this is what they tell to try to paint a picture of Raye Dawn being "railroaded" into prison. WHY? If you can't prove her innocence by telling the TRUTH, then that should tell all you supporters of hers something....maybe that she is NOT innocent???
And Kathie nor no one "threatened" the DA to "charge Raye with something that would stick". How ridiculous.
PORTERS ATTORNEY is the one who went to the DA and asked for the plea. Why don't these people know this? Or do they and just intentionally LIE about it? That part is easily proven. Call the DA and ask him or how about Porters attorney? Either one of them can tell you the truth (but many of you "RD Supporters" won't like it, you never do like the truth) Either one of them can explain the simple process of that plea with any of you.
And Kathie didn't say they couldn't sit through a murder trial but could RD's. One of the big factors was Kathie didn't want Porters child to have to testify against her father. Another MAJOR factor was Kathie did not believe the evidence showed OR proved that Porter was the killer. She believed at that time and still does that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey, so WHY would she want to try to prosecute someone for a crime they don't believe he committed? or a charge that he would simply walk on?? Trying to make Kathie Briggs out to be an evil woman does not make Raye Dawn Smith any less guilty in this crime. And I hate to break it to those less fortunate in the truth....but Kathie does not control the DA or the whole state of Oklahoma like ya'll try to imply. Common sense goes a lonnng way people!
" He told Kathie whatever she wanted to hear. She promised Porter a plea deal if he helped her. She then went to the DA (who'd been on the Smith's side before this) and threatened him if he didn't charge Raye with something that would stick. After Raye was charged, Porter got a plea deal, dropping the murder and sexual assault charges and pleading guilty to Enabling Child Abuse. The Briggs justify their excuse for asking the DA for a deal with Porter as them not being able to sit through a murder trial. Yet they were able to sit through Raye's trial. Unreal."
They are talking about Porter and Kathie. I didn't copy the whole post. Kathie did NOT PROMISE Porter a plea deal, NOR did any of the Briggs ASK for a plea deal for Porter. See?? Simple lies like this is what they tell to try to paint a picture of Raye Dawn being "railroaded" into prison. WHY? If you can't prove her innocence by telling the TRUTH, then that should tell all you supporters of hers something....maybe that she is NOT innocent???
And Kathie nor no one "threatened" the DA to "charge Raye with something that would stick". How ridiculous.
PORTERS ATTORNEY is the one who went to the DA and asked for the plea. Why don't these people know this? Or do they and just intentionally LIE about it? That part is easily proven. Call the DA and ask him or how about Porters attorney? Either one of them can tell you the truth (but many of you "RD Supporters" won't like it, you never do like the truth) Either one of them can explain the simple process of that plea with any of you.
And Kathie didn't say they couldn't sit through a murder trial but could RD's. One of the big factors was Kathie didn't want Porters child to have to testify against her father. Another MAJOR factor was Kathie did not believe the evidence showed OR proved that Porter was the killer. She believed at that time and still does that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey, so WHY would she want to try to prosecute someone for a crime they don't believe he committed? or a charge that he would simply walk on?? Trying to make Kathie Briggs out to be an evil woman does not make Raye Dawn Smith any less guilty in this crime. And I hate to break it to those less fortunate in the truth....but Kathie does not control the DA or the whole state of Oklahoma like ya'll try to imply. Common sense goes a lonnng way people!
Friday, October 8, 2010
Judge filed his ruling!!!!
WONDERFUL NEWS!!!!
The Judge filed his ruling on the jury misconduct and ruled there was NO jury misconduct where Brandi was concerned! ANOTHER victory for Kelsey!! Now it goes back to the Court of Appeals, which normally follows a Judge's ruling. Won't be long now and she will know her appeal is DENIED as it should be!
More later.....
The Judge filed his ruling on the jury misconduct and ruled there was NO jury misconduct where Brandi was concerned! ANOTHER victory for Kelsey!! Now it goes back to the Court of Appeals, which normally follows a Judge's ruling. Won't be long now and she will know her appeal is DENIED as it should be!
More later.....
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