Saturday, April 17, 2010

Say what you want, plenty of witnesses that saw police escort you from the building after you were told to not pass your flyers out inside the building.  I believe there are pics too.

If nothing happened you wouldn't have set yourself up to "explain" (make excuses) BEFORE anything was posted on what happened. 

Wow!

The Child Abuse Prevention and Family Safety Day event  was a success and a good time for everyone!  Well, almost for everyone.


Seems Jody and Sheri showed up.  They were trying to hand out flyers promoting Jody's book.  I guess they didn't realize the event they were attending was for awareness and prevention of Child Abuse...or maybe the did but didn't care.  They approached the authors table where the "Who Killed Kelsey?" book was being sold, started asking a bunch of questions of Cherokee and Britten, and once again stating that the book contained lies, one Sheri brought up being that the book states that Porter was holding Kelsey when the EMT's arrived at the scene the day Kelsey died, and that was a lie.  One of the authors corrected her and told her that the book does NOT state that, that it states Porter had Kelsey and handed her over to Gayla.  Her reply was "oh."  The author then preceded to ask Sheri if she'd read the book and Sheri stated she had not, but people were calling her and telling her about it.   According to Jody's recent blog entry, she bought one, so now I'm sure Sheri will be able to read the truth for herself, and not have to depend on what she is "told" but once again, the REAL TRUTH.

Seems they went to this event to stir up trouble, and that is exactly what they got.  Jody approached a radio station that was broadcasting live at the event and told them that she was told by the Kelsey Foundation that she could do an interview....the person she told this to stated, "I don't think so!" 

While they were hovering around the authors of the book "Who Killed Kelsey?"  causing a disturbance, the City of Shawnee officials, called Security and Jody and Sheri were escorted OUT of the building by 4 uniformed police officers.  Officers in plain clothes were watching them already.  Private security had been secured for the event for Kathie's protection and her family.

There were uniformed officers standing in front of the bleachers where Kathie was sitting and private security officers sitting nearby.

The building was packed, probably 2-300 people in the building that witnessed this taking place, with approx. 40 people standing right there within hearing distance.

How embarrassing for them.  There were several organizations there on Preventing Child Abuse, this wasn't just a Kelsey event.  It wasn't anyone from Kelsey's Foundation, but the City of Shawnee officials that called for security and had the Shawnee Police involved.

Jody and Sheri were informed by the Shawnee police officers they were banned from the building.  So, they stood outside in the rain handing out flyers on the so called "book" Jody is writing.

While this is all very interesting, it also proves a very important point.  One that she will have a hard time defending in court.  She has went on and on for years about how "scared" she is of Kathie and "KP members".  How scared is she really?  She attends an event where she knows Kathie is,  and the very "KP" members that she is so scared of?? That she boldly without any justification OR proof, says has shot at her truck, broke into her home (although interestingly enough, nothing stolen? or damaged.) the same organization that she has promoted hate against all over the internet, even calling an abuse hotline making these same insane accusations... the very one's attending this event that she says has threatened her and is stalking her?...but she comes to where all these people who she claims have done such horrific things to her that she is so deathly afraid of that she had to "move" and acquired "guard dogs" and a "gun" to protect herself from....and she hands out flyers with her name and PICTURE on them?   AGAIN, I pose the question to you, How scared is she really?  This stunt proves she isn't as scared as she has claimed all these years and continues to claim.  What? Now because she passed out flyers with her name and picture on them, she will start claiming that other things are being done to her?  Not hardly. 

As for Sheri...why is she all of a sudden coming out and starting all this trouble?  Is she out for attention because of  her pals book?  WHERE was she before in all this?  4 years later, now she makes her presence known?  Where was she when Kelsey was deteriorating?  She worked at the very office Gayla did and saw Kelsey all the time those last months of her life.  Why didn't  she make her presence and concern known then and step out and speak up for Kelsey and do something to save her???  Not only pathetic but sad for Kelsey.

How do the two of them think they made themselves AND the Smiths look today??  Way to make Raye Dawn proud guys!   Way to stand up for awareness and preventing child abuse!!  Jody has begged for media attention on her blog for months to no avail.  So she not only tries to ride the skirt tail of little Kelsey and her story by trying to make a name for herself in writing a book but now tries to ride the skirt tails of the book on the true story of Kelsey's life and death to get media attention and promote her own book.  Do you really want to talk about and accuse of "exploiting Kelsey"??

Do they think their actions and public display today is going to sell that book? Garner any support and make people believe that SHE is the one being stalked and harrassed, when today PROVED the opposite?  I don't think so.  When her book flops as it will, she can look back on today and put the blame where it rightfully belongs...in her own lap.  And they really aren't helping Raye Dawn either.

It IS kind of sad to see her so desperate for attention...so desperate to make a name for herself and be important, her attempts always fail.  Someone should tell her she doesn't need all that to validate herself as a person.

So now because of the public display today and the continued stalking and harrassing concerning this case, the authors will have private security at all media events surrounding this book.  And there are many, many many coming.

One more thing and i'm done for today.  Sheri stated to the authors that her family is tired of seeing Kelsey's face on everything to do with child abuse.  I have to say Sheri, I might feel the same way if one of my family members abused and killed their own child.  It wouldn't feel very good I don't suppose to have that constant reminder of my family.  If it wasn't Kelsey's face as the poster child for abuse...it would be another child's.  As is very evident not only in the past, but especially today...YOU may not give a damn about awareness and preventing child abuse like Kelsey suffered and to help any way possible to stop it...but Kelsey does...and she IS.  And I know Kelsey would be proud to be the reason another child's life is spared...proud to be the reason children are getting extra hugs and kisses from their parents...proud to be the reason people are now reporting suspicions of children being abused...PROUD to be the face that makes people STOP before they hit their child...and PROUD to be the one to bring awareness and prevention of child abuse, not only in Oklahoma, not only in the US, but AROUND THE WORLD!  once again...it's about KELSEY...not you.
Everyone knew things would get worse once the truth in the book came out.  It was expected.  Those that deny and fight the truth often become more vicious, as has happened in this case. 

Calls from the Smith family and supporter have been made to media, following interviews from the authors of the book "Who Killed Kelsey?"  They state things in the book are lies, tell their side of it, then when the media people follow up and check the facts, it's not the book that has told the lie(s), it's the people making the calls.


The book has definately caused quite a stir.  The way Gayla and Sheri are acting- maybe people after reading the book are coming to the conclusion that Raye Dawn killed Kelsey.  I know several people whom i've talked with that have read it, that's the conclusion they have come to.  They just can't stand it when Kelsey and/or the Briggs get any kind of attention or media time and the Smiths don't.  Their jealousy of the Briggs family is very evident. 

They have alot to be jealous of too.  Unlike the Smith family, the Briggs family are a VERY close family.  Unlike the majority of the Smith family, the Briggs family are very supportive of each other.  Kathie looks after and loves to watch her grandchildren any time she gets a chance.  I remember being told by a Smith family friend that one time when it was mentioned who Kelsey was being left with, Gayla made the statement to this person that she "didn't care who was watching her as long as it wasn't her."  I wonder if she remembers when she said that...I wonder if she even cares.  Personally, sadly I don't think she does.  There is such a difference when you look at pictures of Kathie with Kelsey than the pictures of Gayla and Kelsey.  You can see the love in Kathie's eyes, her interatcions with Kelsey in the videos...just as it should be full of love and care, pride and joy! 

I've never heard Kathie lose her patience with any of her granchildren, and no one has ever said they have noticed that with her either.  But the stories told of how Gayla acted and reacted with Kelsey are heartwrenching.  I would like to think that her memories of how she treated that precious child haunt her and fill her with regret.  Kathie is an awesome grandma.  Her grandchildren are very lucky to have her in their lives. 

There's been so much chaos and drama surrounding this case....even now...over 4 years later.  Why?  What and/or who is causing it?  Those that support RD and the person who "leads" that support, all say Mike Porter killed Kelsey, that RD not only didn't kill her, but didn't even know she was being abused.  Amazing.  She's been exonerated by the group of any responsibility whatsoever in not only Kelsey's death, but in her safety and well being in general.  I know they hold tight that RD's appeal will come back in her favor.  It's not going to.  Those judges are not that stupid.  The evidence is clear.  When you take out all the personal opinions, the personal interpretations and just look at the cold hard facts...it's evident who is responsible.  And that's the way the Judges will see it....evidence and facts only.  Not someone's made up "this is the way I want it to have happened" version, or that persons opinions and personal interpretations mixed in.  THANK GOD for that.  The ridiculous accusations in the appeal will be seen for what they are.

What I don't get is IF they REALLY think that Porter did it, WHY is all their efforts and focus on trashing the Briggs family members and trying to make them look guilty of anything and everything they can find to use?  Why isn't their vigorous efforts and vengeful HATE focused on the one they think is guilty?  The ONLY two possiblities is Raye Dawn Smith or Mike Porter, killed Kelsey.  It is impossible that any of the Briggs had anything to do with it.  Yet some sick, evil people have said Kathie is to blame for Kelsey's death.  Not only is that ridiculous, it is just plain outright mean and cruel.  I mean gosh, none of the Briggs were even allowed to see Kelsey the last few months of her life, so if they want to blame someone other than Porter or Smith, why not blame those that saw Kelsey those last months?  Sheri and Gayla certainly saw her.  They saw that baby's condition and how she was deteriorating.  Gayla testified in court, "we was starting to watch him" meaning Porter.  As hateful, spiteful and evil minded as she is, I really believe that IF she REALLY tho't that Porter was responsible for the bruising and the things happening to Kelsey...she would have called the police and turned him in.  I think she knew it was Raye Dawn and just did nothing.  She probably didn't think it would come to the point that Kelsey would die.  And it didn't seem to phase her much when she got the call that fateful afternoon from her daughter telling her what she'd done.  That's what I think happened.  I think RD called Gayla after fatally injuring Kelsey, Gayla left work and went to help RD stage the scene to set up Porter.

We all see where all the hate comes from, who starts it, who keeps it stirred up and who can't stand it if they aren't in the middle of all the attention.  Jody at first denied that her book was about "Kelsey's case", now she says it will blow the case wide open...I have to laugh at that, she couldn't blow anything wide open because she's not trusted enough to be privy with certain information as is evident by some emails I saw.  Maybe that is why she fabricates so much "stuff", because she isn't fed enough.  She states that SHE is a public figure in this case....lol  I was happy to make sure the attorney's got those pages copied for sure. 

I feel sorry for Jody to a point.  It's obvious she has been used just as she uses others and she probably deserves that for all her lying and manipulation, but what drives her to keep all the hate stirred up and focused on the Briggs and a couple of people who support Kelsey and the Briggs?  What causes her to spend sooo much time promoting the hate towards the Briggs?  The Briggs have done nothing to her, real or imagined.  Her pathetic attempts at accusing "KP" members of everything bad in her life, real and imagined is pathetic.  Anyway, I do feel sorry for her that her life is so unhappy and unfullfilled that she has to rely on her lies and manipulations on the internet about innocent people to make her feel a little bit important.  I am worried about her mental status.  If the Briggs do sue for all her crap, I hope the team of attorney's ask for a subpeona for her medical and psychiatric records.  The blog alone should be enough to secure a subpeona.  I believe she is fully capable of harming the Briggs family, especially Kathie.  Her jealousy or whatever it is of Kathie, is quite alarming. 

As always the things written in my blog are my thoughts, feelings and opinions to which i'm entitled, unless otherwise stated as fact.  Sometimes I wish that I was evil enough to just come on here and start making up crap and state it as fact, but I just can't lower myself to her level, that isn't me.  And I really do thank God, I don't have the capability to be like her, it has to be a confusing, lonely and pathetic existence.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Shame on you once again WENDY!

wjnorbom said...


This is hilarious! Almost as good as the comedy club! I mean gooder and gooder!



April 14, 2010 11:16 PM
 
 
Bet this is just as "hilarious" to you as when you asked not long ago if Lance had "committed suicide in Oklahoma yet?" huh?
Making fun of a poster on Topix posting as "Seekingpeace" who has claimed to have a head injury!  Do you really think this kind of shit is funny Wendy?  Yeah I believe you really do.  How Christian-like of you once again.  Ya'll really need to quit praying for everyone else and spend that time seeking forgiveness for yourselves.  Seriously.
Why is it you NEVER post anything unless you are trashing someone, or making fun of someone?  And you call yourself an "intelligent woman"?? Really.  I would post the definition of "intelligent" for you, but I don't know anymore if you comprehend things well.  Not unless it is making fun of people.  Of course your "idol" already made fun before you....two peas in a pod for sure.  The old saying when you lie with dogs you get up with fleas certainly comes to mind in this situation.  Once again thoroughly DISGUSTED by you, but then what is new?  What should I expect from someone who excitedly asks if someone has committed suicide yet or jokes around about how a grieving grandmother should become a "whale trainer", days after a whale trainer is KILLED by a whale she worked with.  You're "hilarious" alright Wendy.  But I seriously doubt God is laughing with you on these things.

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Teri Sigman

The book "Who Killed Kelsey", has caused quite the stir already.  Amazing how fast people turn their backs on others.  I have a few things to say about Teri Sigman's posts on Topix. 

This is a quote from a conversation going on before the book came out from Teri.  "As I've said before.....everyone is entitled to their own opinion as far as Ashleys' reason's for leaving......I honestly don't care who thinks that...because i KNOW the reason....as I've stated before......there IS a side that people do NOT want told. Ashley, jay & I have chose to NOT add more drama and hate. that is not the type of people that we are."  You'll see my reasoning for posting this by the end of the post.

Actually, I think I will just address this directly to Teri. 
 Teri, one of the first things I notice in your postings on Topix, both before and since the book has been released, is that you are mad about Jay, you and Ashley not being contacted for an interview for the book.  Yet Ashley WAS contacted by one of these same reporters in the past to do an interview for the news on the case and they were told that Ashley had "moved on" and would NOT give interviews.  So, why would they contact her again?  Besides that, this book was written from the perspective of the Briggs family, and you nor your family are in the Briggs family anymore. 

You have harshly judged the book without reading it for yourself.  Maybe you should read it and read all the nice things that WERE said about your daughter.  Lance was actually more candid about his own shortcomings than anyone else's.

Before I respond to anymore of your remarks, I do want to bring up another observation of mine.   The beginning of all your anger seems to have started since the Kelsey Run, when you were told that the Kelsey Briggs Foundation was taking over the run.  You WERE offered to continue doing the same thing with the Run, that you had been doing.  The only difference in it was that the money raised would be going to the Kelsey Briggs Foundation instead of PCAO.  You got mad and chose not to continue in the same capacity that you were operating in with the Run.  I'm the one that deleted your comments from KP when you posted after coming home that day.  Your anger and feelings were quite clear in those posts.

I'm not sure why you are making such accusations as you are, such as the Briggs are making this all about them and how they've done nothing for child abuse and it's "all about the money".  You seem to forget that Lance didn't just sue for "money", but also for DHS reform, and what about the positive changes to Title 10 because of Kelsey and the Briggs??  What about the money raised for PCAO because of Kelsey and the Briggs?  And what about the Kelsey Briggs Foundation?? The run is actually already grown, it is now a marathon.  Money will be raised for a scholarship in Kelsey's name.  I don't think it's been decided yet if it will go to an abused child or someone going into a field to help abused children.  But yet the Briggs haven't done anything to help abused kids?  Oh, and let's not forget Kelsey's Law that is on the books because of Kelsey and the Briggs

The last 4 years you defended Lance and the Briggs, if they were such horrible people as you are now making them out to be, why did you lie all those years?  Fact is, you either lied under oath, in interviews to the media, and for the last 4 years defending them, or you are lying now, it is one or the other, so which is it?  You told things one way then when you got mad over the run and upset over not being interviewed for the book and what was said about Ashley in the book, and now you change your story and they are all totally opposite.

You seemed to be concerned as is evident in several of your posts on Topix, about there being another "blog" where people are discussing this...if you are looking for "blogs" and websites that you can now continue your trashing the Briggs, there is FKM, TTAK, Jody's Blog, they also have several facebook pages, that you can join and chime in.  You will surely receive plenty of attention and "atta girl" with them there.  Of course you seem to not care now that "truthseeker" and her groupies outright accused Jay of sexually molesting Kelsey and now don't care about all the trashing they did of Ashley?  Maybe you'd like to see an email that Gayla wrote about what she really thinks of you and your daughter? Imagine that one.  I'll try to remember to look for it and post it.  And it IS a screen shot of the email, so it can't be changed.

Defending your child is admirable and no one holds that against you and totally expects you to do so, that is what a good mother does.  But that doesn't mean that I or others are not allowed an opinion on how we feel about what she did.  Kathie has asked everyone for the last 4 years to not talk about you or Ashley.  Kathie has always said "Teri is off limits, she is Kelsey's other grandma". 


Your implications of "why" Ashley left Lance appear to be that he was mean and/or abused Ashley.  If that is true, and all the other bad things you are actually saying, then what exactly are you saying?  That you lied under oath when you testified different?  That you lied in your interviews for the media?  And if that IS what you are saying, then go ahead and post it...your "truth".  Then I will post the truth from Ashley herself, in an email from Ashley from AFTER her and Lance were divorced where she was asked if Lance had been abusive and/or mean to her and she said she was answering that question for the LAST time, that he had NEVER been abusive towards her in any way! 

If it has been all about Kelsey with you, I have a question for you.  What happened this year that you didn't list Kelsey as your grandchild in the paper for Valentines Day, when you have done that EVERY year since it was confirmed that Kelsey was Lance's child?  This year you left her out.  Why?  Of course this was once again after you got your feelings hurt and got mad over the run.

And I have NEVER said that Ashley wasn't good to Kelsey when she cared for her.  She was excellent with her, when she wanted to be... but when she was done....she was done!

Another question...IF Lance was sooo bad to Ashley, why did she show up at the airport when he came back when Kesley died?  She wasn't even invited, but she showed up.  Why would she do that if she just had to get out of the marraige so fast that she couldn't even stay for Kelsey's sake long enough for Lance to come home?  Just doesn't make a lot of sense.

One of your main complaints that you keep bringing up is how no one contacted you to interview you for the book.  You have known for 3 1/2 years that book was coming...you knew who was writing it...if it was that important for you to have your say in the book, you knew who to contact, why didn't you?  Maybe it's just easier to be the "victim" afterwards.

Again your words..."Ashley, jay & I have chose to NOT add more drama and hate. that is not the type of people that we are."  To that all I have to say is after all the nasty, hateful things you have recently posted on Topix after getting your feelings hurt over the book is....In my opinion you have truely shown the "type of people that" you are.  Was your "love for Kelsey" lost when you were talking trash on her daddy and her family on Topix?  I wonder.

Friday, April 9, 2010

Britten

After getting my chuckle for the day...(comedy is good for the soul ya know), I have to wonder if the person talking out their butt again, even really knows who Britten is?


To answer the question, yes the book was "self published".  Britten IS IN the publishing business, comes from a long line of family in the publishing business.  She knows exactly what she is doing.    Would seem like a big waste of money to those with a brain....or even half a one.  Maybe people would look less ignorant/stupid if they would do a little research before they run at the mouth about things they obviously know NOTHING about!! LOL

Friday, April 2, 2010

Dedication.....

I just love Mariah Carey...I changed some words for my dedication to the woman who's life is obsessed....



Sweetie, here is my dedication to you......

OBSESSED



“I was like, why you so obsessed with me?”




So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

So, Oh, Oh-0- Oh. So, Oh, Oh-Oh - Oh.

Will the real MC please step to the mic?

MC - You need an MC, place to be.

MC the MC.





All up in the blogs, sayin’ we fight about Kelsey’s case,

When I don’t even, know who you are.

Sayin’ we up in your place, sayin’ I’m up in your face.

But you in OKC, and I’m out on the Island.

I’m up on the truth, you’re so lame,

And no one here, even mentions your name.

It must be the mind, it must be the case,

Cause you be poppin’ a seam, you pop your top





Ahhh Ohhh.

Why you so obsessed with me?

Girl I want to know, lyin’ that you’re not stalking me

When everybody knows, it’s clear that you’re upset with me.

Ohh, finally found a person that you couldn’t run off,

Stop from telling the truth, you still don’t get it.



You’re delusional, you’re delusional,

Woman you’re losing your mind.

It’s confusing you, you’re confused you know,

Why you wasting your time?

Got you all fired up, with your ‘poor me’ complex,

They’re seein’ right through you like you’re bathin’ in Windex.





Ooh Ohh Ohh.

Woman why you so obsessed with me?

So, oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

And all the truthful people sing,

So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

All the truthful people sing.

(obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed.)





You on your “job”, you hatin’ hard,

Ain’t goin ’feed you, I’mma let you starve.

Graspin’ for air, and I’m ventilation

You out of breath, hope you ain’t waitin’.

Tellin’ the world how you’re the “victim”,

But you’re far from that, so why you trippin’?

You a mom and pop, I’m a corporation,

I’m the press conference, you’re a sad conversation.





Ahhh Ohhh.

Why you so obsessed with me?

And woman I wanna know, lyin’ that you’re not stalking me,

When everybody knows, it’s clear that you’re upset with me.

Ohh, finally found a person that you couldn’t run off,

Stop from telling the truth, you still don’t get it.







You’re delusional, you’re delusional,

Woman you’re losing your mind. (Mind)

It’s confusing you, you’re lies are confusin you

Why you wasting your time? (Mind)

Got you all fired up, with your “victim” complex,

Seein’ right through you like you’re bathin’ in Windex.





Ooh Ohh Ohh.

Woman why you so obsessed with me?

So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

And all the truthful people sing,

So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh. So, Oh, Oh- Oh- Oh.

All the truthful people sing.

(Obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed, obsessed!)





Ahhh Ohhh.

Why you so obsessed with me? ( She’s all caught up in her lies)

And girl I want to know, lyin’ that you’re not stalking me. (Lying that you’re not stalking me.)

When everybody knows, it’s clear that you’re upset with me. (For telling’ the truth)

Ohh, finally found a person that you couldn’t run off, (Ohh)

Stop from telling the truth, you still don’t get it.. (Just tell the truth, you still don’t get it)

(Fade out)

You’re delusional, you’re delusional, (She’s all caught up in her lies).

Woman you’re losing your mind. (Mind)

It’s confusing you, you’re lies are confusin you,

Why you wasting your time? (Mind)

Got you all fired up, with your “victim” complex,

They're seein' right through you like you’re bathin’ in Windex….





OBSESSED!


And now, have a great life.  I have too many wonderful and positive things in my life to let your lies and negativity bring me down to YOUR level any longer.  I truely hope you find peace within yourself someday and that God has mercy on your soul for all the hate you have promoted and lies you have told.  Good luck on that one.  Most of us rarely think of you anymore until we are notified of more of your crap.  You're not feeding off me any longer, I refuse to play your sick, twisted game.  You feed off attention, any kind of attention, including bad....find another food source, this one is done.  I really do wish you the best and hope if the professional you are seeing can't help you stop chasing your phantom demons, you will find one who CAN help you.  I seriously think you are delusional enough to be dangerous to others, and that is my opinion of which I am still entitled to.  I really do wish you the best....and that you finally learn truth from fiction.  Adios